2006-07-16 17:23:54 · 26 answers · asked by colorist 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The smell of his cologne I buy him. He's not into wearin' cologne's all that much...like never. But when he's feelin' like being a real sweety, he'll dab a little on.
MeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoooW, His Kitten starts to Purrrrrrrr!
(he-he...Now I'm blushin'....awe shucks...snicker snicker!!)
Sharin' my smiles...
SmileyCat : )
2006-07-17 16:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by SmileyCat : ) 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A) I don't believe there is only one life, but that is totally immaterial. (Well I mean maybe there is only this one, who knows, I don't know what to believe)
B) I am not motivated to find one mate for life and never have been. Apparently everyone else figures out what the point is to this by the time they're 12, but I still don't get it. If I fall in love with 10 women, why should I shun 9 of them? It doesn't make sense.
2006-07-18 05:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe like you do about only one life, yet nothing other than communication motivates me to mate for that duration. I've always believed a woman needs sex from more than one man, yet needs to be truly loved by only one man. So ideally, my potential wife or girlfriend would not be required to be monogamous. The requirement is that she would always communicate with me more openly and honestly than any other individual.
Men may be like this sometimes too as it's individual preferences.
For me, being a voyeur type as well as a participatory type, I really don't care if I have sex with more than one woman. I would rather be committed to one woman without being "married" in the traditional sense. I would prefer she explore here passions and desires and if that leads her to monogamy that's fine. Yet I would prefer having the bond of communication over the bond of monogamy; since I can only give so many forms of physical pleasure, it's great if she has other men that she can discover her sensual side with and not have her mate be jealous or "freaked out."
Love is many different things to many different people; in order to mate for life, finding a person with a similar definition of love is crucial.
I've yet to find my life mate and I'm 45. Ya' never know and that's why living to the next day is a good thing.
2006-07-17 03:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by rightonrighton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate for life with the same person, I assume? I'm not sure if I understand. If I am going to be reincarnated, it is easier to be monogamous since I can have sex with different people in the next life?
As far as I'm concerned, it does not matter if we have one life or a billion, since we can not remember anything from past lives (with few exceptions, but I never believe those people).
2006-07-16 17:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by trixwagen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that much of your motivation would come from your upbringing and religious beliefs. Even the Bible talks about rebirth. So its up to you and your beliefs as to whether or not you will "mate" for life. I mean there are those who have spiritually mated and those who have physically mated for life.
2006-07-16 17:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by thelonewolf63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of commitment. When I married my husband, we made a commitment that we would be there for each other. It's nice to know that I have a spouse that will not simply leave when things get rough. We're in this together and that means that we must work things out. There is something comforting about having my husband to rely upon and be my partner. If we only stayed together for as long as we're happy, I would not feel that same comfort zone.
2006-07-16 17:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Searcher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married, and my motivational factor was the journey towards raising a family, helping each other out in our careers, living in a house and supporting each other in every way possible. To me, it is about building your house on rock, and not on sand. I did not get that support when I was just dating around. I had all kinds of fun, but was not truly supported, at least not to the extent that I am now.
2006-07-16 17:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by gplay2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry your best friend....studies show that people who stay married to the same person live longer, happier lives. I am not bashing people who get divorced, I understand some people make a mistake. I am just saying that when you go through life with your best friend, life is better. You have that one person to be there for you and that you will be there for when times are bad and good. When you get it right it is the most wonderful way to go through life. Good luck.
2006-07-16 17:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Mad Maddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not there is another life (I do believe but that's me), the only reason I can think of is that you deeply, truly love that person and want to be with them forever, and they with you. It's a rare thing indeed, but there are certainly couples who have been happily together forever.
2006-07-16 17:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not motivated to mate fo life. As for other lives - i am not sure - but here we are in this one.
2006-07-18 10:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋