I am so irritated with my boyfriend right now. I feel a little neglected by him. He respects and gives me alot of space so I can do what I want. (We are exclusive to each other.) I really enjoy the time I can spend with my friends, I never feel that I'm compromising anything with him. But, I don't know if its healthy space or my neediness coming out. However, we have only been going out for a short time (less than a year) and I don't now how I feel about him. I don't want to have a "talk" about me wanting to spend more time together, b/c I don't know if I want to take the relationship to the next level. I am really not good at masking my feelings, so he knows something is up. But latley, I have been putting him as a priority, and I really don't think its reciprocated. (But I am also PMSing & get a little "crazy" during this time of the month.) Anyway, I am feeling myself withdrawing from him so I don't get myself all excited to see him & then let down. I'm just venting more
2006-07-16 17:18:22 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda80 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's very important to feel wanted and loved. If you are not happy with not having enough time or attention with your boyfriend, pmsing or not, you will be unhappy . It is just a matter of time. You can't barter or compromise your emotions. You are who you are for a reason.You shouldn't second guess yourself. It would probably be a good idea to sit him down and let him know how you feel. If he isn't respondant to your feelings in the right manner, then you will resent him later on, anyway. Who knows.Maybe he has no clue that you feel thisw way. Communication is very important in relationships.Good luck to you
2006-07-16 17:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cath 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you want to go to the next level but maybe you are afraid because you don't see him as wanting to..i say have a talk you will feel better..but wait another week..lol
2006-07-16 17:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. There are times when no matter what someone does it just won't make us happy. After all this is something we must do ourselves. And everyone is human. Vent all you want.
2006-07-16 17:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jill M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is most likley the PMS.....we've all been there ....it is good to get it out though.
i have been that way at times as well....we're always here to listen and respond...some respond better than others but hey sometimes it helps just to get the feelings out there.
i hope things work out.
2006-07-16 17:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by ~Princess*Bonkers~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋