I would never do that though but every time we go out and I talk to this mate or any other guy he getts shitty and grumpy at me. I just want to know what his problem is?
2006-07-16 17:17:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have sex with all of them and then tell him they were all bigger and better than him.
2006-07-16 17:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by tom g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand where you're coming from. My boyfriend doesn't take me on dates anymore since he's on a tight budget. So I tell him fine, I'll let another guy take me on a date, and he's like, go ahead, that's fine with me. Why does he say that when really, he doesn't mean that it's okay for me to think about going out with other men. All I can put it down to is mean are strange. They don't think like us. Their brains are wired differently. Your partner doesn't want you to have sex with one of his mates but says he doesn't care because he doesn't want to show vulnerability, and he gets grumpy when you talk to his mates because he's not in total control of the situation. When you figure it out let me know, I don't get it at all.
2006-07-16 17:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is just jealousy honey, yu cant fix that in a man. maybe you laugh a lot when you are around his friends and then he probably thinks that he cant match his humour to theirs. Just try to make him feel special by doing certain things fro him and make sure he know that you like him and only him... but the fact that he says he is ok with you having sex with one of his friends is probably a 'test'. He might want to see if you really would take it into dconsideratio or not.
2006-07-16 17:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for the ok to sleep with one of your mates. Watch out.
2006-07-16 19:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be one of those test questions like when girls will ask "do you think these jeans make me look fat?"
Of course when I really want to say "no, it's not the jeans. I would be more concern with all that flab that's hanging all out there..."
2006-07-16 17:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to look like a man (bloke) but can't stand up to the pressure. Have him screw you before you go out, that will cure the insecurities for the evening!
2006-07-17 14:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by OU812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be insecure about the relationship to me. I would watch this pattern with him and see if he himself is up to something because he shouldn't even be mentioning you doing anything with anyone other than him. Good Luck!
2006-07-16 17:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by SAMMIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His problem is that he's desperately insecure, and you should dump him. You're headed for more of this kind of jealous nonsense in the future. Why bother?
2006-07-16 17:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him off and start doing the mate and tell him he'll have to ask his mate if he can have some with you
2006-07-16 17:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to have a serious conversation about his control issues.
2006-07-16 17:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by poecile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is telling you that in hopes that you will tellhim he can have sex with other women. How much can he really love you if he says you can have sex with others?
2006-07-16 17:20:33 · answer #11 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋