should i dump my girlfriend because i think she is cheating on me and i dont know what to do
2006-07-16 16:57:36 · 44 answers · asked by robot1444 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find out if she is really cheating on you first. Then dump her. On the other hand, it sounds like your relationship is pretty bad. You should probably dump her anyway, and find someone who makes you happy.
2006-07-16 16:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
usually if you have a feeling your mate is cheating then it they are but im going to tell you ask her before you make assumptions the best thing to do is tell her how you feel and if you feel she is lying to you while you are asking these questions tell her it is over tell her that you will find someone who will love you and will not cheat on you a person doesnt miss the well until it runs dry meaning the reason why she is doing this to you is that she thinks that you will always be in her life and that you will always be there for her even if she's cheating i'm telling you to ask her first before you make any hasty decisions if she's cheating find a girl that will love you and respect you because i dont think your girl respects you or giving you the attention you need from her okay babe and good luck no one can really tell you what to do but I can advise you to confront her about it and tell her a relationship can't work without trust, honesty,compassion and compromise that will make her tell the truth and here's what you do tell her if you and her is going to be in a relationship I need to know if you are cheating or not depending on who she is she may or may not tell you and if she starts avoiding the question she is so then you break up with her and find someone who will love and treat you right
2006-07-16 17:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u sure she's cheating or are u being insecure about her independence? If u confirm that she truly is cheating on you then u need to make sure u don't want her anymore and move on. Don't break up with her just to stay bed buddies or something, really move on. But dumping someone cuz you suspect them of foul play isn't fair to u or them becux you'll never know what could have been. But you'll spare yourself the insecurities,pain, and tears in the future if you let go of her now becuz shes a cheater.
2006-07-16 17:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to think your girlfriend is cheating on you is an assumption....Communication is the best way to look at any situation... If there is a feeling of uneasiness and mistrust then there is may be something lacking and a need for the two of you to sit down and "LISTEN" sometimes its insecurities and sometimes it's a feeling of not getting your needs met... it is very important to be able to tell each other from time to time what you need from them .... and also find out what they need from you.... I think to dump someone is a wrong way of looking at anything.. I think a relationship if there are uncertainties needs to be assessed by both parties..... sometimes people begin to grow apart.... If you love her and she loves you then its work working out ... A relationship is work.. working together for the good of building a strong foundation!
2006-07-16 18:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by I can Only Imagine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word here is think. You think she might be cheating on you. If you break up because of something that your not sure of you be losing someone great. Be careful and pay attention you will find out your answer just dont do anything rash in the meantime.
2006-07-16 17:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out for sure if she is cheating on you before you dump her.
2006-07-16 16:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by melsoccer11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't be offended by my response. She is just your gf right? until you are married , I don't consider that to be cheating if you are still in the dating mode unless the two of you had some kind of agreement not to see other people. If you don't want her seeing other people make that point clear to her. If she cares about you the way you care about her, she should have no problems not seeing other people. I hope things work out for you.
2006-07-16 17:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by machelle6691 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her so that you'll be positive if she is cheating on you or not. If she is cheating on you, she might not tell you, so if you honestly believe that she's cheating on you and she lied about it, I'd say that you either have very good intuition or you don't trust her. Both of which are probably bad.
2006-07-16 17:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by Drop of Golden Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her on whether or not she's cheating on you. Whichever the answer, talk about it, and if you feel that you can't trust her and are not willing to give her any chance for her to earn your trust back, then yea...dump her
2006-07-16 17:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her there are more girls who will treat you better...if you think she is cheating then there is something wrong my ex thought i was cheating and it was him cheating all along.....so when you go accusing make sure you know the facts before you do anything
2006-07-16 17:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by glowofacandle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋