I have a cousin that called me Izzy because she could not say my name right and she left when my dad did when I had no way to get hold of her and now I start to cry and yell at my friends when thay call me that and it is so emmbaressing. Does it make me a bad person when I yell at them?
2006-07-16 16:55:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It doesn't make you a bad person, it just brings out emotions in you when you hear that name. Just explain to your friends why you don't want them to call you that, I'm sure they'll understand.
2006-07-16 16:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't make you a bad person, and it's very mature to ask a question like this. You may be feeling things could be handled differently and that is how we grow up. You're doing fine.
Imagine someone insulting you again this way,and visualize how you will react. Bring it back to them in a friendly way and they will respect you.
I think you are sensitive for some other reason, and not exactly because they called you a bad name.
2006-07-16 17:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but isnt izzy a cute name? i dont see a problem. if it bothers you that much ask them calmly to stop.
2006-07-16 16:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Trite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,your friends would not know about it if you didn't tell them.You embarrassed yourself No your not mean,a little hot headed but not mean.
2006-07-16 17:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. it just makes you over sensitive. if you explain to them why it hurts they will probably stop calling you that.
2006-07-16 17:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋