ok i didn't really in i just wanted you addvise on somethin so please don't leave
my best friend Tina is friends wit this girl Summer and the girl summer is like so annoying she sleeps with every body school and my best friend Tina is so mean she teases me and calls me fat and porky and chubby even though i eat less then her and is on the cheerleading squad she tried out but didn't make it and she tells every one every thing that i tell her in confidical like once i told her that when i first started my period for the 1st time i would just throw me tads in the garbage and not throw them away in a bag or something ad she went and told her brother and {boy} cuzin and prob her dad that i did that ad she even told a girl name Shinee that i dreamed that i got r#a#p#e#d and liked it i'm not even alloud to talk about cheerleading to her because she didn't make it and it will hert her feelings and i get that but some times she say stuff like i don't think the cheerleading squad will be good this and and she even said that she hopes that i break my legs or have a hurricane come and end football season so i don't get to cheer and well anyways i what to stop being her friend but i don't know how like do i just say we weren't friends any more or what i really don't wanna be her friend but tell you the truth she's really my only friend so if we stop being friends i want have any one to talk to during the summer till august when school starts over again so please can some body tell me how to tell her that i don't wanna be her friend any more
2006-07-16 16:30:41 · 21 answers · asked by pink_cheerleader92 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and your point would be......????
2006-07-16 16:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
It really sounds like Tina is not good for you and no fun either! Her friend Summer is definitely not your moral caliber and neither is Tina . You don't have to stop being friends suddenly. Just find something else to do some of the time and don't be available to her all the time. Be polite. You don't have to tell her what other obligations you have even if she asks. Just say "I'm sorry, I just can't come tomorrow," or "I'm sorry, I just can't talk right now." Even if the reason you "can't" is just that you have decided to practice being alone. Then maybe you can find some other interests or read some books or practice sports or watch tv or get a hobby--it is better than having somebody tear you down and try to make you less than you are.
2006-07-16 23:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These girls are not your friends in any way, shape or form . . . friends don't act like this toward one another. It sounds like this girl, Tina, is jealous of you because you made it on the squade and she didn't. There are probably other reasons as well, but since I can only go by what you have written, I won't even try to speculate on what these other reasons are.
Try making friends (if you haven't already) with the other girls on the squad. At least you have something in common with them. Ignore these other girls (Tina, Summer and Shinee and any others like them) to the best of your ability. If at all possible, don't put yourself in a postion where you will be likely to run into these girls.
Life is to short to worry about petty jealousy. Do what you can to get on with your life and be happy because that will bug them more than anything else. LOL
Good luck and have a happy summer!
2006-07-16 23:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Tina that you just can't handle having anything to do with Summer, and that if Summer tells anything that you confided in Tina, that you won't have anything to do with her either. If that doesn't work, get a pair of panties (new, preferably) and melt a Baby Ruth candy bar in them. Put THAT on the floor in the ladies room at school with a large note saying "Summer left this in here, thought everyone should know!" Don't sign it. Good luck!
2006-07-16 23:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by webfly2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off Stop calling her your Friend cause she isn't your friend. You don't have to tell her anything, just stop taking her calls and talking with her. If she asks why you aren't talking to her or hanging out anymore, Tell her because she is rude and a bully. You will find new friends. Try hard to have a great summer. There has to be someone else you can call and hang out with this summer! If not, hang out here on Yahoo Answers. You will be okay, you are young and will have many more friends in the years to come. :)
2006-07-16 23:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by pinkribbons&walking4boobies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One piece of advice, when people see such a long description to you question, they most likely will not answer. try to sum it up in a few words. It's way tooo long.
You are not going to get a straight answer to your question.
Just try to keep that in mind for next time.
2006-07-16 23:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is not your friend at all. Tell her that you don't appreciate her meaness towards you and you think it's best if you don't be friends anymore. I bet once you quit hanging with this girl you'll prolly make new friends.
2006-07-16 23:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she were your true friend, she should be happy for you and look after you and not curse or spread nasty rumours about you. My advise would be find new friends or join a group where the individuals are more genuine.
The more you stick with her, the more she will hurt you.
2006-07-16 23:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by kk84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I won like $25 on this lotto ticket I have. But I havent turned it in yet.
2006-07-16 23:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by lucyanddesi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your little life is way to full of HIGH SCHOOL DRAMA!!!!!! Don't tell things to people that you do not have 100% trust in. Don't compare yourself to other people. Be you! Believe me, you will like it.
2006-07-16 23:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus ignore tha bip and make friends w/ ur acquaintances. And try not to be so dramatic bout it.
2006-07-16 23:45:07 · answer #11 · answered by KanDiez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋