2006-07-16 16:02:53 · 13 answers · asked by finkksta 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go to the BAR baby
2006-07-16 16:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by suepooh23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life does go on after being dumped..been there before so I know how you feel...My advice is to not sit around feeling sorry for yourself..get out with friends or just go for a walk..anything is better than staying home waiting for the phone to ring. So go out and have some fun..who knows..you just might meet someone who really cares....
2006-07-16 16:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. You will find love again. If it was the love of your life and it was meant to be then it would have worked out. There is someone much better for you that will sweep you off your feet. It takes time, do things that you enjoy and are positive for you, think of you for a while and be with friends.
2006-07-16 16:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing about love, is age doesn't change how one feels when they are dumped. First thing you will learn is time heels all wounds. You have to let it happen, and it will, One or two good things to do is remove all items around that bring this person to mind, second do not go to places that you both went, and run into him. Do not jump into another relationship just to show him, you will just make it worst, talk to friends, this is the time talk it out, and get rid of it.
2006-07-16 16:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by johnnyt4030 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for someone else...you are in no condition to be with another person, and it won't make you feel any better. Reconnect with old friends, walk/exercise, try journaling (writing your feelings down), take a class, do something for yourself you always wanted to do but never found time for, or try counseling if you need more help. Your heart will heal in time and the pain will fade.
2006-07-16 16:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he/she's really the love of ur life, than they'll come back to u. If they don't, than it was misplaced love... U can get back in the game, or u can find a great hobby to occupy ur mind and body. Just if u want that person back, than be aware that going out to "get some" isn't so smart.
2006-07-16 16:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by breaker_1020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not the love of your life.
It will take you time to realize this. You will go through your grief time. Then you will pull yourself together and move on.
If he felt like your love of your life....imagine how the real love of your life will feel.
Take good care of yourself. Give yourself a down day, then get out and be with people.
Your heart will heal, give it time.
2006-07-16 16:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all don't listen to any of the people that say find someone else, go to the bar/stripclub,etc. u need time to urself so u can heal. Have a close friend come over to talk to. Don't just go for a rebound, u'll only b hurting urself and that other person in the end. if u need someone to talk to you can e-mail or im me. btw, im sorry...sweet_but_a_smartass@yahoo
2006-07-16 16:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call up a Friend and have to nice dinner for the first few weeks it's not going to easy you will miss them like hell remembering all the nice things you do together and all the lovemaking but you must tell yourself that life goes on with or without them.
2006-07-16 16:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by terri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Git up and get back on the "horse". Go to a strip club with your buds, get drunk and have some real fun with some real women.
2006-07-16 16:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out & find some one now. Or I'll help yah.
2006-07-16 16:06:52 · answer #11 · answered by Nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋