One mistake does not justify another.
Enjoy your youth while you can.
You can be an adult and a parent when you get a little older.
You will never regain your youth!
2006-07-30 12:34:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Regretting having had an abortion is not the reason for bringing a baby into the world. If you are not sure and are saying, "I don't know if I should or not", you are NOT ready to have a baby.
Parents don't know EVERYTHING, but yours apparently feels that you were not ready. Believe me, when the time is right, they will be thrilled having grandchildren.
If you and your fiance are willing to wait a year or two, Even the child will be better off, because not only will it have the love of you and your fiance, but will also have a great love from it's grandparents too! HOW great will that be?
2006-07-16 16:07:45
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answered by sheristeele 4
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To "right a wrong" is never a reason to have child. If you and your S.O. are ready to be parents, then the past abortion shouldn't be a factor in this decision.
As long as you are uncertain, I would wait. You can mourn past decisions without compounding what you now believe was a mistake.
The time will come when you know you want a child because you know you want a child. That's when you should consider becoming parents. Not to right a past wrong.
2006-07-16 16:19:33
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answered by Anonymous
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I would say NO. You just had an abortion, you should not be thinking about getting pregnant again. It 's not something that would be in your best interest, especially without financial support. I am 30 years old and a college graduate; due in December and I still feel as though I am not ready.
2006-07-29 17:06:27
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answered by one_sera_phim 5
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no matter what they told you, you did not HAVE to get an abortion because of your parents. but, you cannot turn back the hands of time. listen to yourself, you are saying boyfriend... until he is your husband, you need to abstain. even if he is your fiance, no one "needs" to have a child. you need to wait until you get married and get yourselves together so the child will have a wonderful home and family life. Please, be assured, the baby you lost will still be with you always and you will see that child again. that baby is now with our Lord and is in loving hands. just remember, once there is a child, it's not about you any more, it's about the child.
2006-07-16 16:08:47
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answered by Anonymous
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You should wait until you are emotionally and financially able to support a child. Please don't let regrets or pressure from outsiders pussh you into something that you are not able to handle.
PS I would suggest some sort of counseling for your obvious difficulties dealing with what happened. You should speak with a mental health profession prior to making any choices as dramatic as bringing another life into this world.
2006-07-16 16:14:31
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answered by cerwenna 2
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I would suggest waiting until you have a stable family situation that you can bring your child into. You are still very young! Remember that your parents will be looking out for you and although you may not always like their advice, it will generally be with the best intentions for their daughter - and also their grandchildren. Best wishes...
2006-07-16 16:13:13
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answered by Ant 1
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You should wait awhile. If you have to ask yourself this question, the time is probably not right for you, your fiance, or the baby.
2006-07-17 05:15:05
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answered by Anonymous
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get married first.. and also, try to contemplate for the life that you ended so early.. you should be ashamed of yourselves.
2006-07-16 16:06:03
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answered by grifter_xiii 2
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u r too young to b getting pregnant!
2006-07-16 16:04:32
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answered by Anonymous
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