my boyfriend is addicted to pills and it is really affecting our relationship i am starting to fall out of love with him weve been together for nine years most of which have brrn spent being addicted to one drug or another and have recently been blessed with a beatiful healthy baby but ive been dealing with his addictions for so long i cant take it anymore i feel that i can do so much better help
2006-07-16 15:53:56 · 22 answers · asked by jekis 1 in Health ➔ Alternative Medicine
Homeopathy :-
Give him NUX VOMICA 30C thrice a day half hour before meals especially half hour before going to bed he will get over his pill popping habit soon by the Grace of God .
Take care and God Bless !
2006-07-16 20:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry, you can try rehab if you haven't yet, if you have and it does not work, leave the relationship. His behavior can affect your baby now and not just you. That means you have to look out for the greater good of your child before anyone elses. Behavior like that can effect a child for there whole life. It is better to leave, and know in yourself that God has something better for you and your child. It is better to let go and place it in God's hands and maybe it is scary at first, I am a single parent, but God sees you through, and will bless you with something better for you and your child, take care.
2006-07-16 16:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by canuseeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try going to Narcotics Anonymous and attending some of their group sessions, but I'm sorry to tell you, I don't see much success in forcing your boyfriend to break his addictions if it has been going on this long.
If he is to have any hope of cleaning up his act, he's got to hit bottom. And if he knows you are sticking with him no matter what, he might not find that bottom. Assuming that he still loves YOU...or at least loves you more than his drugs...you and the baby may have to leave him for him to realize what he is doing to himself.
But if you do leave him, make sure you mean it. You absolutely can't go back unless he is straightened out. Do it for the baby, if not yourself.
Good luck to you.
2006-07-17 02:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think walking away from this situation wont help him get cured .
Leave the baby for some months in a day care centre and take your husband to a doctor or rehab centre and get it cured .Since he is your lover , it is equally worth to take part in tought situation too .It is very common that when people fall for drug they become helpless and he is not cheating you , he needs a way to stop it which he is not able to help himself . So show him affection and handle the situation carefully . Running away wont solve the problem . Be patient , you will reap the result .
All the Best.
2006-07-17 00:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times has he said he would change? If he has consistently broken this problem and you told him you didn't want this scenario anymore. Then, for the sake of your child, leave. He may have to learn life's lessons the hard way. I am sorry for the situation you must deal with, but under the circumstances this is the best advice I can offer. Think of your child now, that is who matters most.
2006-07-16 15:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that the kind of home you want your child growing up in? Seeing a father with a drug problem? Leave now. Sometimes the right choice and the hard choice are the same thing.
2006-07-16 15:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack a bag and collect your walking papers.
Until he chooses to change and quit the pills you are banging on a deaf wall.
Maybe leaving him will wake him up, if not least you did what was in the best interest for you and the child.
2006-07-16 15:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he is WILLING, he needs to get treatment, followed by going to NA meetings. You, on the other hand, have to do what's right for your baby and yourself, which will require you to take care of yourselves (you and the baby), while he gets his $hit together. Then - you MIGHT be able to re-establish a relationship, after he's been in recovery for awhile.
If he is unwilling to get help, then your best bet is to get on with your life, because he is not willing to get his life together.
2006-07-16 16:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him now. it aint nothing worth staying with a man that has a drug problem. just think about your baby and not him for once. babies dont need to be in that kind of environment. your baby can get influenced just by him doing that. make your decision. him or child
2006-07-16 16:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by Tsunami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somethimes we do things that we dont like doing.9. years with him and no change have you ever talked to him about him having a problem if not then do if so. this is your decision you can either have him put in rehab. or leave him or stay this is your choice as well options as well only you can choose this. my opion?
2006-07-16 16:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋