my boyfriend is addicted to pills and it is really affecting our relationship i am starting to fall out of love with him weve been together for nine years most of which have brrn spent being addicted to one drug or another and have recently been blessed with a beatiful healthy baby but ive been dealing with his addictions for so long i cant take it anymore i feel that i can do so much better help
2006-07-16 15:52:28 · 11 answers · asked by jekis 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
leave him
2006-07-16 15:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Lord Jesus. I'm so sorry sweetheart. I have recently been through the exact same thing. We now have two healthy children, my fiance is a full-time straight-A student and has a full time job. We are so happy now, and I know this might sound crazy, but it was the church life that saved us. Where do you live? I would love to talk more. You should email me if you can and we can talk more. Pleeeeaaase. This is serious, I know how horrible it is. Especially when you're a mother and you just want the best for your child. UGH. Let's talk more.
2006-07-16 15:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by mamabird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say move on. He is addicted to pills and it can lead to a downhill slide if it hasn't already. I also would think about your child. Do you want him or her to grow up watching daddy pop pills? I would get out of that relationship if I were you.
2006-07-16 16:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by raven_ice_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you know, he probably won't stop until he's ready. you can lay it down for him to see clearly, and then you have to set some boundaries for yourself, and say 'this is it because i've tried'. nine years is long time with him and his addiction. unless he's willing to change for himself, not for you or the baby, it's not going to work. if he does it for you and the baby, there could still be a part of him that wants to go back. if he does it for himself because he wants a life with you and the baby, he'll be successful, as long as HE wants to do it.
2006-07-16 16:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. If he is not willing to stop, you need to get your baby away from that. Do you really want your baby to grow up around that and turn out the same way? Dont put your baby at risk like that.
2006-07-16 15:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away if he has not changed after nine years he will not change now, also with the child if something would happen to child while he is all drug up you can loose the child at least temporary to social services,
2006-07-16 15:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by goz1111 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM and get into Narcanon for support for YOU and YOUR BABY. Sounds like rehab hasn't worked, so you havealready wasted 9 precious years, YOUR CHILD DESERVES A FATHER WHO WILL BE THERE FORHIM/HER AND HEALTHY!!! YOU DO TOO!! GET OUT NOW BEFORE MORE TIME IS WASTED. GOODLUCK
2006-07-16 15:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by nursechrisi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to alonon and get out of the relationship it will not get better.
2006-07-16 15:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by reneevaldosta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..
jus be careful.. try talking to him and seeing whats wrong?? and why hes taking all those pills... try making space for him.. or just call his doctor..
good luck and hopefully he stops takin them pills:)
2006-07-16 15:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by KOOLGUY2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta tell him, its you or the pills and then pack your stuff and leave.
2006-07-16 15:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by realgirl768553 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept him or move on!
2006-07-16 15:55:16 · answer #11 · answered by ccccccc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋