Would you be able to sit there and watch your man ogle other women and get lap dances and not get mad or would you join in?
2006-07-16 15:27:48 · 10 answers · asked by Good Gushy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, I think women's bodies are beautiful.
Doesn't mean I'm bi or lesi, though.
(Just like I can think guys are hot
but won't do anything about nor want to
because I am already in love.)
As for strip clubs,
I'm a dancer and can speak from experience
that many couples go in together.
In fact, usually the girl gets more into it that the guy!
Most clubs will even do couple's lap dance,
where they get one while sitting together holding hands.
It can bring you two closer in a relationship.
The best thing about my job is
bringing couple's closer together!
Most men think it's extremely sexy if their girl
is self-confident enough in herself and in the relationship
that she would be cool about strip clubs
and being surrounded by beautiful women.
If they are not cool,
then they either have no self-confidence
in them or trust in the guy,
or they are simply ignorant.
I don't mean that in a bad way, either.
I was ignorant about strip clubs a year ago, as well.
I was raised in a sheltered life
with overly-religious parents so they taught me
that strip clubs were immoral.
I thought strip clubs were alot worse
than what they actually are.
Although it's true some are truly skanky,
there are many that are classy establishments
where the girls dress in formal gowns
and have no-contact rules.
Those venues are best for couple's.
Besides, just think:
If you are by your man's side at a strip club,
he will be more open with you and less likely to cheat on such an amazing women! :)
P.S.
This is what hundreds of men have
confessed to me about their wives.
Trust me-I've taken many relationship polls!
2006-07-16 16:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by divalicious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am straight and I have no problem saying so if I think another woman is beautiful. I have been to several high class strip clubs and have enjoyed the dancing just as a form of entertainment. Not sure if I would like my hubby to get a lap dance but I'm not sure.
2006-07-16 15:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by thrill88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who submit to this kind of relationship dynamic have made themselves a slave to their boyfriends sexual obsessions.
This kind of behavior is only valid outside of the context of the understanding of a woman as another human being anyway, and such a man is orienting his whole world around a feeling he gets in his dick.
As a man, I would feel like I had descended to the level of a filthy animal, if I didn't get more satisfaction out of going to a nice restaraunt with an attractive intelligent woman than out of getting a hard on at a strip club.
2006-07-16 15:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i defiantly find other woman attractive. the female body is a beautiful thing. as for going to the strip clubs with my man, i would rather be there with him than hear about him going with his guy friends
2006-07-16 15:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of use want to visit strip clubs. But I still find other women attractive. I'm not much on stripping slu-ts though.
2006-07-16 15:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think other women are pretty or hot ya...and i wouldnt mind a guy going to a strip club...but i dont think i could go to one with him i just wouldnt wanna see that
2006-07-16 15:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would totally join in!! im not bi, but i think the human form, man or woman, is absoultly beautiful! and i would rather be there when he gets all wound up, if ya know what i mean!!!lol!
2006-07-16 15:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by kyss_mig_jag_ar_amerikansk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ill get mad at first but then i think i would just join in some fun... rite ? why not? i dont think theres nothing wrong with that as long as they arent going to far...RESPECT..and..TRUST is the key thing to make every thing happen..so my conclusion is that i wont mind as long as its under control.
2006-07-16 15:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go. Just for laughs...maybe get some notes *lol
2006-07-16 15:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah
2006-07-16 15:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tired S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋