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2006-07-16 15:16:40 · 9 answers · asked by xy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Children NEVER overcome a divorce, They just accept it and hope that their parent will get back together again.
2006-07-16 15:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you remain positive then the children will have a much better chance of dealing with the divorce in a more positive way. Allow each child to have a room of their own at each parents house. Never talk negatively about the other parent! Be positive about the other parent! Allow the children to talk freely about how they are feeling. Let them call you when they are at the other parents house so they don't worry that you are lonely without them. Whatever rules are to be made at one house should be made at both houses. Don't try to "out do" the other parent to win "brownie points" from the children! Plan events (at least in the beginning of the divorce) that includes the children and both adults. Love the children lots and remain friends with your ex!
2006-07-16 15:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
children are resilient and will overcome the effects themselves but the best way is not to be a quitter and work at what you promised each other as spouses in the beginning. No divorce would remedy the problem entirely.
2006-07-16 15:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is one way to overcome the effects of divorce on the children:
For both parents to remember that even though they can't be together for whatever reason, that they need to be adults and put the children first, to not let any new boyfriend/girlfriend cause problems for the children or the ex, to put the children's needs first. That means putting up with your ex more than you want to, that means not saying the hurtful words that you want to, that means making your new boyfriend/girlfriend, your family and friends keep their mouths shut about your ex., that means putting your children first in everything over everyone else-even the new boyfriend/girlfriend.(if they can't understand the need to do this for your children then you don't need to be with them, they will cause problems that don't need to happen.)
2006-07-16 15:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by whatelks67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it can be rosey that would be great. All depends. If there are no kids involved it might be easier but since your quesiton is about kids. There is not magical wand, couselling would be good for them or a kids after divorce group. Call your local health unit.
2006-07-16 15:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by moonspawnhotmailcom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to make the children responsible for their behavior and show love and respect for the emotions they're going through.
2006-07-16 15:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant, divorce ruins everything. I dont know why you are so happy about this question, divorce is a horrible family malfunction that only happens in america. you are just another statistic
2006-07-16 15:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get divorced. The only way I can think of.
2006-07-16 15:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest, tell then the truth. let then know much you both love then and let them know what ever happens you both will be there. on matter what. see counseling. go to groups meeting. they are out their. just remember they will act out just to get your attention. kids will think it their fault. but just give then lots of love. and be honest.
2006-07-16 15:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋