ok i dont love him that much so it wont be hard to get over him. i miss him though because he is on vacation with is family in michigan and now is in mexico. he broke up with me over the phone with a text message. how lame is that! it said that he needed time to figure out who he is with. i dont know what the hell that ment. i dont know if there is another girl or what. what do you think?
2006-07-16 15:08:31 · 22 answers · asked by Night visions 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Normally if someone doesn't love you any more, it's because he is in love with someone else. Yes, he was a coward for not telling you. You might feel undervalued and angry. You have a few different feelings to sort out. Just let him go and don't call or email. You will heal faster if you tell yourself it's over and that you will take responsibility for your own mental health and healing.
2006-07-16 15:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tony T 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
there might be another girl on his mind. whether there is or not, that was indeed a lame way to break it off. some guys are just lame, period.
1.have your little tantrum and scream into your pillow.
2.next time you see him or talk to him, tell him to act like a man next time and not do such a cowardly thing such as breaking things off via TEXT MSGING! what the hell? tell him he cannot treat you like that.
3.then eat a peice of chocolate cake, and then move on with your great young life
2006-07-16 22:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of that matters. The fact that he broke up with you through a text message says he is inconsiderate and rude. You already said it won't be hard to get over him - move on and stop wasting the energy it takes to think about him - and even write this question.
2006-07-16 22:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all this guy sounds like a jerk, so if there was someone else or whatever, you shouldnt really care. All the advice i can give you is to get back to searching for a new boyfriend, but dont settle for just anything you can get. If you did that, you might get a repeat of the last one.
2006-07-16 22:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by Hilary H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that before 9times outta 10 hes got someone on the side.since it wont be hard for u to let go of him let him float with the when and catch the next guy thats what i did and now I'm happy don't stress ur self.
2006-07-16 22:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by yoyoluv27910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is an excellent opportunity to move on and stop worrying yourself about someone you weren't even into. So what if he broke up with a tmsg...big deal. Did you expect something more from him? Just let it go and take all of that energy and do something positive with it; like make more new guy friends!
2006-07-16 22:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right that was a lame way to breakup. It sounds like he wants a free conscience to play around on vacation and then when he comes back if he didn't get something better, beg you to take him back.
Move on girlfriend - he's using you and he's a jerk besides...
2006-07-16 22:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was lame. He may have another girl and U never know she may be on vacation with himand his family. Or may be he's not with his family like u think may be he's with her.
But whatever just move on girl u don't need this kind of treatment
2006-07-16 22:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah hes on vacation and is looking to get some pooty tang with some random girl while there, and by saying "needed time to figure out who he is" means that he needs to find a girl to fool around with on vacation and when he gets back, he'll call you and want to hook up again
2006-07-16 22:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He met a girl while he was on vacation and dumped you. He has no class or he would have called you. But you have to give him points for breaking up with you instead of cheating on you.
Move on.
2006-07-16 22:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋