Everytime I date a girl, they either end up cheating on me or dumping me. Throughout the whole relationship i listen to them and respect them and talk everything over. They tell me I really am a good girlfriend, but i keep thinking its my fault. I can never find the right girl, and now I'm starting to hope that one will find me on here! Is that bad, and whats wrong with me?!
2006-07-16 15:06:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
(i dont take any **** from them, i'll put them in their place)
and im bi if that helps
2006-07-16 15:24:40 · update #1
I give them space too....... i just dont get it!
2006-07-16 15:25:54 · update #2
First, how old are you? If you're less then 25, its probably nothing wrong with you, its just the way that dating goes when you're young. Its all drama drama drama.
If you're older then that, look at your taste in women. What is a common pattern besides that all your partners have been losers? Are you a chronic saver of broken people ("if I can just love this person enough it will fix all their problems")? Do you limit yourself to certain ages, races, or religions that cause problems? Are you really needy? Do you only like women who have high drama and bypass the shyer stable ones? You have to look at it for yourself.
The easy way out is to whine that there is something inoperably wrong with you - that way you don't have to change anything. It's much harder to look realistically at your choices and change your patterns. It can be done, its called learning and growing.
2006-07-17 07:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is really no way to know. It's prob'ly not even something you're doing wrong, you just haven't found the right girl or guy yet. Maybe it's the places your looking, sometimes clubs and bars are just "hook up" spots not where the people that want long term relationships go, try a GLBTQ group or rec club like a sport team or something. If they cheated then it's their fault, not your. Don't feel bad about it. You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince or princess.
2006-07-16 23:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XR, there's nothing wrong with you. Maybe you are trying too hard to find the right girl. Relax and take a breather and one will come to you. Maybe you are smothering your girlfriend. Give her space. Enjoy
2006-07-16 22:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Weebles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're making the same mistake some straight girls make when they constantly go for the same type of guy. Try a little variation in the personalities you date.
Tammi Dee
2006-07-17 01:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just havent found the ONE yet. Stop looking and let love find you. It seems hard especially when you get lonely. I deal with it by burying myself into work and reading good books....You will be o.k. Tray
2006-07-16 23:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tramelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe u need 2 be more picky when it comes 2 wut girl ur dating, cuz it sounds like the girls that r cheating on u and dumping u r immature. and i am sure that some day u will find the right one. good luck ; )
2006-07-17 13:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try guys then.
If nothing eles the foremore lover's will be horrified that you turned to guy instead.
By the way.lol
2006-07-16 22:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by Doug B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you playing for the wrong team.
2006-07-16 22:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL you have confirmed what I have always said women don't want someone to treat them good they want to be treated like crap. If they are treated good they treat the other person like crap. Lesbians are no different.
2006-07-17 16:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just too nice...ie, a doormat...maybe you just keep choosing the wrong women...change something...
remember...stupidity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results every time...
2006-07-16 22:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by bitter_winds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋