What do guys think of girls past the age of 35 who want a relationship and want to be married? Do they prefer a 20 something gal for marriage? Now, the 35 year old gal is articulate, educated, professional, classy, attractive, fun-loving, and smart...but would just like to settle down. Does the settle down part scare guys? Or does the 35 year old part scare guys?
Personally, I think guys seem to care about the individual rather than the age. Am I wrong?
2006-07-16 15:00:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try Church. It can be a good way to meet guys who have the same beliefs. I suggest a not-religious church!
2006-07-16 15:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .... all guys are different. Some will take the yung gal but some will take the 35 yr. old. All guys have different personalities. It depends on the appearance too. It also depends on the guys age. Some guys like them a little older and some like them younger. hmm who knows. But I think most guys care about the individual.
The male brain is hard to understand anyways lol.
If you really like the guy thats not something u should worry about.
peace out-
2006-07-16 22:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Whateva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is biased because I'm 28, but I've run into problems with women who were around the ages of 35-45, because mainly they only wanted sex from me. Another thing is, they are not at the same place in life as me, because I've never been married and have no kids. If she was 35 because she has her Ph.D, M.D., ... then that would be a different story, because she was working at something. I also have a problem with women who have been divorced, because either they choose the wrong men and need chaos(that won't work with me), or they are quitters. I know it a poor outlook on things, but it's my outlook.
2006-07-16 22:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your age is not a problem...some men are allergic to the "C" word, commitment...what age man are you looking at? You sound ideal for men 30+. Some older men, 50+, may or may not want children, so there is that to consider. Very young men would want to learn from you sexually but may not be marriage material based on an emotional, educational, career level....certainly any guy worth considering marrying would care about the individual woman.
2006-07-16 22:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 25, 35, 45, 55 or 65......., its not the issue. The most important is we feel young in heart and healthy. Enjoy every moment of our day, be happy, gets to know new friend........ IF you meet a good guy who love you, he will never scare to settle down with you. So, age is not important...
2006-07-16 22:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get while the getting is good. I have friends that are about 50 and it doesn't get easier to find a quality guy. They are still looking. I'm 48 and no one can believe my age, but it takes work. If you are wanting children that's another thing to think about. Personally, I think it's more about a woman's personality and having things in common with the other person - than the mere age.
2006-07-17 00:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem with 35 year old is that they are combative because they are educated and think independently
guys know there are going to be constant fights and bickering
not to mention 35 years old are notorious for being extremely unrealistic with there choice in men, scan nay personals, online or in the papers, you see plenty of 35 years old seek SWM, generous, well educated tall dark and handsome.. well guess what, those are all ready married ( and not to 35 year olds ) and want nothing to do with aging bitter women who just don't get it and missed their shot are a meaningful relationship
2006-07-16 22:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many men actually just want sex,they will tell a woman whatever it is they think she wants to hear in order to get them into bed.Some men will feel threatened by an educated articulate woman;they dont want someone who can question their integrety or hold them to account.You are still young enough at 35,just hold out for the right guy,when he arrives you are much better equipted to appreciate him than you ever were before !
2006-07-16 22:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by any 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have as many men look at me in my twenties as they did in my late thirties and early forties. Here I am older and more worn for wear and all of a sudden I was in demand. Young men too. Some young enough to be my son. When I ask them what the attraction was they told me that older women are more direct and don't play head games. We are "experienced" in all aspects of life and the younger men find that a turn on from what I am told.
I was divorced at 36, and was competing with women in the late teens and early twenties for men. For some reason I can't explain the older women, like me were leaving the parties with all the cutie pies. Who would have figured?
2006-07-16 22:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about the individual person. Oh and if she's like's sex it's a big plus, if you do not like sex with the person you are with, then long term is out of the question, just as for people who never have sex until they get married, then after they get married, they still are programmed to say no, or not interested.
2006-07-20 09:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto to don45.
I think that a mature is what every man needs. There comes a time in our lives when the younger lady is not what we really need. Not saying that they are not what some of us may still look at from time to time, but we know that a stable woman can handle her business more efficiently in more ways than one. So, women past the age of 35? I say bring them on. Those young women are wearing us older guys out anyway.....(j/k) ;-)
Be strong my vivacious mature question asker...... there are men out there who appreciate you.
2006-07-16 22:10:22 · answer #11 · answered by mjmojaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋