If you were having an online relationship and discovered your spouse was too would you be mad?
2006-07-16 14:59:55 · 42 answers · asked by sissy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
id b mad at him but then id realize i did the same thing so we both messed ^ and i would talk about it with him
best of luck!
2006-07-16 15:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you honestly justify that feeling? If you are already having an affair of the heart - which this clearly is, and so is your spouse, do you not think that it is time for a real sit down heart to heart talk with your spouse? Maybe even some counseling, if you think your marriage is worth saving. You are both looking/searching for something else - outside the marriage. You are obviously not satisfied with what you have with one another. Yes, you might feel mad, hurt, angry but then again, your spouse would probably feel the same way. You just happened to find out first. Get help. Talk about it together.
Stop playing with fire!!!!!!!!!!!!
It will burn!
Every time!
2006-07-16 15:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by mammma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in your heart, no matter what, you will feel betrayed. You will try and rationalize your hurt away by telling yourself that you were doing it too, but two wrongs don't make a right. Therefore, your heart will be battling your head. And they are emotions. Not right, not wrong, just feelings...and they are yours to work through. So, yes, an honest answer would be that I would never have thought my spouse was doing the same thing and perhaps guilt would be misguided into hurt. Believe it or not, time will help you work through the madness.
2006-07-16 15:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,
if you really want an honest answer you would have to ask us a proper question. i am sorry but your question does not make any sense. your question is " If you were having an online relationship and discovered your spouse was too would you be mad?" your spouse is too what ? if you want people to help you then you would have to simplify your question. good luck...........................
2006-07-16 15:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by babe33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first reaction,Yes,but there must be something going on or not going on in your relationship for you both to be doing that.On line relationships might seem like the answer but you don't know who your really talking to.With your spouse,you know them.Try to talk about how to fix your relationship at home
2006-07-16 15:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. I'm sorry honey but you and your husband may need to talk and part ways. Both of you are doing something dishonest and wrong. You don't need me to tell you that. But to answer your question, yes, I would be quite upset and hurt even if I had done the same thing. Maybe yall need to move on. Everything will work out for the best, I'm sure.
2006-07-16 15:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you be mad when you were doing the same thing? You both need to talk with each other and get some counseling.
2006-07-16 15:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sxybrnsugr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I would most likely laugh my butt off. You should use it to your advantage. Use it as a tool to spice up your own relationship. Get everyone into a chat room and dirty talk to your computer friends. Then the two of you can act it out in real life.
2006-07-16 15:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by charice266 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-16 15:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you? You're doing the same thing? Why not have an online relationship with each other? sounds like fun...
2006-07-16 15:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋