okay, this is so weird.. lately, i'm having a hard time with the big "o". it's like, i get right on edge and lose it. it just goes away. this is happening with sex, self-love.. etc. i'm puzzled.. never had this problem before....
2006-07-16 14:57:23 · 7 answers · asked by MnKLmT 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
1. not confusing sex with love, he he.. i'm already married... know the diff...
2. not forcing it..
3. and i have kinky sh_t to send me over the top..
it's so weird...
2006-07-16 15:08:27 · update #1
Stress would be my first guess. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself. Do what feels good, and if it doesn't happen, don't worry. Sometimes, it just doesn't. Try something new. Maybe what you're doing now, just isn't doing it for you. Relax and enjoy yourself, that's what sexual stimulation is all about. However, if you feel that concerned about it, and it still isn't happening, talk to your doctor about it. It could be something, maybe not. But if I had to take a guess, I'd say you've got some stress going on and you're worrying too much.
2006-07-16 15:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't force it! Just relax and don't confuse sex with love. Sex is a physical expression of a mental state. If they aren't congruent, you will end up physically exhausted or mentally frustrated. You can't separate the two - well you can try, but it's better if you don't.
2006-07-16 22:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by mickjam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some kinky sh_it to put you over the top.
2006-07-16 22:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to think about it so much. The pressure you are putting on yourself could be causing it.
Don't rush yourself!
2006-07-16 22:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a nut Dr.
2006-07-16 22:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Scott R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur forcing it
2006-07-16 22:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can
2006-07-16 22:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋