Married guys or gals...have you cheated on your mate? If so, does you mate know about the infidelity? Did any of you stay in the marriage after finding the truth? If you left, why? Please feel free to answer any or all the questions OR add any comments on this subject.
2006-07-16 14:55:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was married 18 years. I never cheated. He did. End of marriage.
2006-07-16 16:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in this marriage because it's so wonderful. But in my last marriage of 20 years,yes, I have to admit I cheated. I did it just for spite even thought my ex never knew it. I did it just to see if I could. How far could I push this "pussie" before he took some action to stop it. He never did....so I got tired of cheating. If I'm cheating Im only cheating myself...I left and never looked back. Never did or would do it again.
2006-07-16 22:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married to the first husband 17 years, was faithful, but caught him with another man and divorced him. Husband number two, I was married to for 5 years, then I found out he had a girlfriend and she was pregnant. I was faithful, he wasn't. Husband number 3, been married with for three years. Best husband I ever had. He's been out of the country and I cheated on him twice already. I will never tell him and plan on staying with him. After the first two relationships I was heart broken that I had remain faithful in the relationship and they didn't. If my 3rd husband is cheating, I hope he's smart enough not to let me find out too.
2006-07-16 22:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My first wife cheated on me REPEATEDLY. I was very naive when I first married & thought that a person could change those types of habits. Most people who cheat will ALWAYS cheat. I divorced her after lots of empty promises were made by her. "Once a cheater, always a cheater." I couldn't handle the constant heart ache. I believe that marriage is forever, but a cheating spouse puts your life in jeopardy in more than one way. There's risk of disease (non-life-threatening & life-threatening). There's the stress of worry & doubt. It can destroy your self-esteem. There's a big chance her (or his) lover(s) can be a physical threat to your own well-being (& your kids' - if you have them). It's not worth it.
2006-07-16 22:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by himalayaplaya69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated. But have been cheated on, and definitely didn't stay with the person.
2006-07-16 22:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married, but in a committed relationship......and no, I have never cheated on my man.....and never will......that's just wrong!!
2006-07-16 21:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated
2006-07-16 21:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Catcanscratch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never and will Never cheat.
2006-07-16 22:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by barrys_lil_cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally it doesn't work out after there is any infidelity but it can happen.
2006-07-16 21:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everybody deserves a second chance
But it won't worth if he do it once more
2006-07-16 21:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by Vocal Prowess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋