I need help, I really messed this up....?

Question

I did something really stupid and now I don't know what to do. I'm a flight attendant and I came home from a trip one day and my husband told me he was leaving me because he had found someone else. He moved out. He's been gone about 2 months now, and out of anger I told him I was pregnant, and I'm not. He told his mom and his mom told mine. So now everyone thinks I'm pregnant. What do I do now? How do I get out of this mess without looking bad? I don't want to have to tell everyone that I lied, I just need to know what to say to make them think I'm not pregant anymore. Did I also mention my Uncle is a gynocologist? So, it has to be something believable. Please help me. I know I was wrong.

Answer 1

humm...misscarriage? saw a female dr. to confirm..nothing against uncle, but that he's your UNCLE.

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reasearch false pregnancies also...all the symptoms and hormones, but not really pregnant.

Answer 2

Just tell them miscarriage. Look it up on net to get your facts straight for uncle. Or if you did not go into details such as saying it was confirmed by a doctor, say that either the pregnancy test was wrong, or stress can stop a period as well. Or there is always the truth. Just be sure that you do not trip yourself up, and don't lie and then tell the truth later to anybody. Your husband doesn't sound like mister right anyway. But I can understand being angry with him. It is human nature to hurt others when youu are angry with them. Do you really want him to come back just because he thinks your pregnant? Truth is always the best.

Answer 3

Just tell them that you thought you were pregnant but you actually just missed your period due to all the stress of your husband leaving you. Stress can do that to you. And if you told them you took a test blame it on their lack of accuracy pregnancy tests aren't always 100 percent. We all make mistakes and don't always own up to them there is nothing wrong with a little white lie because if you tell them the truth you never know what might happen.

Answer 4

Just say you had a miscarriage, but be sure to research the symptoms and everything accurately, since your uncle is a Gyno.
And say that you saw another Doctor, because quiet honestly seeing your uncle creeped you out.

And avoid getting your uncle involved at all costs. Tell your family you just don't feel comfortable with him examening you.

Answer 5

I am sure that they will understand, considering the stress you are under regarding your marriage. Just tell them that your period was really late because of the stress and you took a test and got a false positive. Tell them that you took another test and it showed negative. Just apologize and explain that it is a difficult situation regarding your husband and you feel bad to let everyone down. I do hope that you learned your lesson. Good luck!

Answer 6

Tell your family that you messed up the colors on the pregnacy test. You thought one color meant the other color. Easy enough, right?

if that doesnt work out for you then just tell the truth!i mean,you wont be lying and you'll get it off ur chest instead of it being a lie that you'll take with you forever.

Answer 7

IM NOT SAYING WHAT U DID WAS RIGHT, BUT I HAVE A SOLUTION THAT MAY WORK.......
TELL THEM THAT U THOUGHT U WERE PREGNANT BECAUSE U MISSED YOUR PERIOD BOTH MONTHS, TELL THEM IT MUST BE BECAUSE OF THE STRESS YOU'VE BEEN FEELING THAT CAUSED U TO MISS UR PERIOD LIKE THAT.....THEY PROBABLY WONT THINK ANYTHING ABOUT IT SINCE YOUR HUSBAND DID JUST LEAVE U. TELL THEM THAT U HAD A FEELING INSIDE THAT SOMETHING WASNT RIGHT IN UR MARRIAGE BUT DIDNT KNOW WHAT IT WAS AND THATS WHY YOU WERE STRESSED. AND REMEMBER THERE ARE FALSE POSITIVES WITH PREGNANCY TESTS! DONT SAY YOU HAD A MISCARRIAGE; THEN PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS THINK THAT U HAD ONE AND U DIDNT........MISSING UR PERIOD DUE TO STRESS ISN'T AS SEVERE. AND U DONT WANT PEOPLE FEELING SORRY FOR U BECAUSE OF SOMETHING THAT DID NOT HAPPEN!

Answer 8

If you dont want to tell the truth then you have to tell another lie. Tell them that you went to the ER because you were having slight pains and saw a little blood. Tell them that when the doctor take blood to see how high your HCG level was, he told you that as low as it is and as far along as you should be. When he did a pelvic exam, he said that you were losing tissue and your cervix were soft. He summed it up as you are having a miscarriage. Then he told you that within the next week go to your regular doctor so that they can exam you. After a few days go by tell your husband, his mom, and your mom that you miscarried.

Answer 9

Own up to it. That's the only way you can get out of this one. Let them know your reasoning behind it and hopefully they will get over their anger with you in a timely manner.

That was a horrible thing to do, but they should forgive you in time.

Would you really want to try to get out of a lie with another lie? If you do choose to lie again, and they find out, they will probably never trust another word that comes out of your mouth.

Answer 10

Thats good that you know that you were wrong because it was very stupid of u to say that just out of anger but i understand...u really cant di anything but tell the truth,what else are u gonnna do!U could git pregnant with some other guy,but that would be slutty,yeah that sux

Answer 11

wow. how awful.
first, there's nothing wrong with honesty.
second, you can always just say you had a miscarriage. search online for miscarriage experiences and read those, so you'll be able to describe it accurately.
but if your uncle is going to be involved, you're out of luck... you'll just have to tell the truth. maybe you can go to your uncle and he can help you get out of this???

i guess you learned your lesson.... good luck!