Im 17 2day I just found out I was pregnant, I told both guys who might be the father, Im scared what do I do?

Question

I was going out with one guy in the beginning of June we broke up. We had sex one time right after my period ended. I met a new guy I really really liked we started dating then it also ended. I'm still friends with both of them. I just found out today and have no idea what to do!

Hi, I woke up today took a test and it came back possitive. I was going out with a guy in the beginning of June. we had sex once we broke up. I met a guy in mid June. Started dating beginning of July, thinks just didnt work. I'm not a slut. I always wanted to wait until I was married Well when I was 16 in the summer I went out with a guy for a week he broke up with me cuz I wouldn't sleep with him we stayed friends but the next time we were alone he raped me. So I saw no point on waiting anymore. I've slept with 5 guys my whole life.

Answer 1

Stop having sex before you are grown and married,and only with one person never two.
Tell your parents.
You don't sound mature or wholesome enough to be a mother,so give it up for adoption.Don't kill it,it's not the childs fault you did this.

Answer 2

You might not want to hear this but...... CONGRATS!!!!!! The best thing you can do is tell your parents or a responsible adult that you trust who will be able to help you deal with your pregnancy! You should start thinking about what you are going to do with the baby such as if you are going to keep it put it up for adoption or have an abortion (please dont do this because it is not the babys fault!). You should tell your doctor so that you can maybe go to parenting classes to help you prepare for the birth and learn how to look after the baby properly. There are alot of things to consider like breast feeding or bottles or keeping it or not it would be best to discuss these with your mum or some one who has bin in the same situation? Any way I hope you make the right choices for you and the baby! Goodluck I hope you are happy with choice! = )

P.S. For finding the father try using a DNA test when the baby is born!

P.P.S. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

Answer 3

Keep on going. Each step brings you closer to your goal. You may feel like you have stumbled and cannot go on, keep going anyway.
Why does it seem like a bad thing? Perhaps it is just not what you planned from life. Societies teach us to expect certain things out of life. We are taught to follow certain rules and seek certain goals. But what you expect doesn't always happen. It may take some time to accept. All you can do is just keep marching.
I advise that you do not turn away from people. Tell your parents. They may be angry at first, but they'll probably get over it. Isolating yourself is nearly the worst course of action.
You are bringing a new life into the world. Someday you will see the smile on your childs face and know that you are the cause of it.
And know that if you don't feel that you can make the journey, turn around, and see how far you've come.

Answer 4

first off dont listen to people who like to judge and call you names just because you are sexually active dosnt make you a slut.. hey if you dont have a man and are experimenting all power to ya and dont let anyone bring you down for it.. second im really sorry i know it sucks to be put in that situation i hope it all goes like you want it.. let your parents be involved because they are the ones who will stick it out no matter what.. then get a test to tell wich one is the daddy and by the way happy birthday.. im 26 weeks pregnant and im soo happy so just enjoy your pregnancy its a great great great thing feeling your baby the first time and hearing the heartbeat well good luck and congratulations on the baby.. everything always works out in the end

Answer 5

You should think about what you want in life. If you want a family and a life without college then keep the baby, but if you want to go to college, get married, and have a baby when your ready, you may want to put your child up for adoption and help out a family that wants a baby but just can't concieve one. But whatever you do, don't have an abortion, this was your mistake, why kill an innocent baby that didn't have a chance.

Answer 6

Ask a Dr. for a DNA. Test, to find out which one, is the real Father, of your Baby. This will be an important factor, in the Baby's Health, if some questions should come up later, about the Health History.You owe it to the Baby, & Yourself, to know who the Father really is.

Answer 7

I was so sorry to read some of the responses that you got sweetie. I can only imagine how scared and unsure you must feel. And for these "adults" to pass such harsh judgement of you is horrible and not a christian way to act. You do need to tell someone, a parent, teacher, older friend that can help you make some of these tough decisions. Try to think of not only yourself but this unborn child. Don't make hasty decisions, really think and pray about it. Know that there are options available to you. Let someone help you. [e-mail] if you need to talk.

Answer 8

Thats a horrible situation you have gotten yourself into. Im sorry.
The first thing I would do is make an appt. with your Dr. and they can do a blood test to find out if you are for sure pregnant. If it turns out you are then you need to have a little chat with both guys and explain what is going on and from there you can take a paternity test.

Good luck to you.

Answer 9

Stay calm! I know you have heard this a million times but, what were you thinking? Two guys, one is not so bad, but two! Anyways, telling your parents would probably be the best thing! Good luck.

Answer 10

Aw, congrats. The best thing to do is to go to a local clinic after the delivery and get a perternity test, or you can just go on Maury and get one for free.