2006-07-16 14:07:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thats probably extremely hard to do, i am sorry u had to end up in this kind of position, but its better to tell him then for him 2 find out on his own, right?
2006-07-16 14:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Don't. Then back out, assess the situation and look for somebody AVAILABLE! The heart can make you fall in love and the mind can make you fall out of love. Take your pick, but if I were you, I'd choose the friend.
I've seen malicious crap go down as a result and trust me, it's definitely NOT worth the aggravation!
Another thing, would you want him to have your back if you were to do that to him? Don't flush a friendship down the toilet just for a GIRL!!! We women are not worth *that*! It's flattering, certainly, but I know I'd feel uncomfortable if someone did that for me. I had a friend of my husband's make a pass at me and I never allowed him in the house after that! Do you want to risk *that*?
What? Is she the last woman on earth? Find someone who's better suited for YOU! If she wanted YOU, she would've gone to YOU, not him...
Also, would you want a woman who would treat her boyfriend like crap and dump him for someone else? Keep that girl where she belongs, in his arms and stop envying what HE has... There are plenty of women out there who will love YOU and treat you the way you deserve to be treated! Just be patient! It may not seem like it now, but you WILL find someone!
2006-07-16 14:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by coorissee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have done my best not to get into this situation. Who instigated the relationship? If it was you...you are not a very good friend. If it was the girl...she may just be trying to make her boyfriend jealous and you will pay in the end.
2006-07-16 14:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at what you are doing and you want to know how you can find guts to tell your friend? You aren't his friend. If you aren't a total jerk, tell him and the sooner the better. If he punches you in the nose consider yourself lucky.
2006-07-16 15:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke the # 1 rule of dating a friends ex.you should of talked to him first now i say that your screwed.if you tell him you 2 probably will not remain friends
2006-07-16 14:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by shaq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him keep the relationship on the down low b/c you don't want to ruin your friendship or just tell the girl that yall need to break up b/c you don't want to hurt your friend
2006-07-16 14:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by toria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a serious issue with the definition of friend?
The persons that you know do not need any more enemies, they have you!
2006-07-16 14:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
opssssssss
u'll lose one of them for sure
but my advice ,,its better to lose the girl but ur friend he'll be there for u no matter what , so try not to loose him
2006-07-16 14:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by Nicholet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. She won't last for you either. Help him get over her.
2006-07-16 14:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him if ya feel like it but he might not like it lol
2006-07-16 14:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by gogo69er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋