My husband dosn't erase his emails and I went threw is inbox and read some old emails between the two about me. She said some things that made my blood boil and I really want to beat that ***** ***. I'm going to have a hard time being in her presents now that I know her true feelings about me.
2006-07-16 13:48:04 · 16 answers · asked by PYT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kill her with kindness and kill her more with all the love you can possibly show to your husband infront of her. "PDA" Let her know your relationship with him is great and the sex is greater ( I know we can all fake that one) let her know you are here to stay. You dont have to like her and we could careless if she likes you. Who cares what she thinks. You could confront your husband on the emails but will he be upset you saw them? Besides you want to see her emails after she sees how loving of a relationship you two have. He married you not her, and I would remind her of that with every kiss and pinch on the *** I could get by with in front of her. Take care of your man and dont worry about what other people think.
2006-07-16 14:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh. rednkwoman doesn't know what she's talking about....I know for a fact that you can have very close friends of the opposite sex without having sex. Well, maybe she can't, but others can.
It would be best if you could find a way to forgive your husband's friend....but not yet.
Write her a letter and say EVERYTHING that's on your mind. If its not at least three pages long, you're not done yet. Don't mail it, but put it away for a week or two, then go back and read it.
At this point, you'll be ready to talk to the woman if you'd like. If not, that's cool, you should be able to keep your cool around her now. If you do decide to talk it out with her, let her know how you feel, and then see if the two of you can reach any common ground.
2006-07-16 21:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jess Wundring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think you should talk to your husband about this, be up front and let him know that you saw these emails and you know what she said. I kinda wonder if he did or said anything in your defense in which he most certainly should have.
I think for the time being you should kill the ***** with kindness. Keep your friends close but your enemies closer.
2006-07-16 20:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first confront the husband and tell him don't ever make the mistake of talking about me to anyone behind my back. It doesn't matter how I found out, all that matters is that I know and I'm warning him it better stop now. As for the friend, she would be next on my **** list and I would treat her like something on the bottom of my shoe.
2006-07-16 21:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about it and sort it out between you two. Now about the b*tch, ask all civil and friendly around her, even better, try to invite her out and make her a part of your life. Anywhere that you can keep an eye on her,so she can´t try anything with your husband. Remember, keeps you friends close and your enemies closer...
2006-07-16 21:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should confront her one on one. with out your husband around. tell her just what's up. if she don't like it too @#$%ing bad. she a backing stabbing @@@^*. she is starting stuff between you and your husband. i think he wanted you to see it. i think your husband is being really rude. I'm surprised your husband didn't say anything to her about it. tell your husband that you know about what she said, let him know she's not welcome in your home. you have the right who comes in your home or not. if he don't like it then he can leave and don't let the door him in in the *** on the way out. it's either you or her. he should be a man and stick up for his wife. unless he don't have any BALLS. GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-16 21:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember you're married to him and she isn't. Be amicable and act like you don't even know she doesn't like you. The sweeter you are the more it'll bother her and she'll have to tolerate you. If you make something out of it, then your husband will know you invaded his privacy and it'll give his friend the leverage she needs to not like you and prove she was right after all.
2006-07-16 21:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one Girl u are crazy to let him have another female be his best friend.Like i tell my husband he aint got no female friends the only one he got is me.U need to whip that b**** a**.And u need to talk to ur husband and ask him why is he letting her disrespect u and still talking to her.then punch him in the face.he needs to choose btween u two.
2006-07-16 21:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by Moniluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if shes a "best friend" then they have had sex ,i dont care what anybody says no man can have a girlfriend for just a "friend without it being sexual at some point. you're being lied to in my opinion.kick her as$ dump his ,any move on ,cause it ain't going to work..
2006-07-16 20:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Scarlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the wife.
Call her, and tell her My husband and I had a heart to heart, and he showed me your emails.
He will deny it when she confronts him, and so now she'll be mad and will never trust him again. Good.
If he's mad at you for going through his emails, so what? Part of him WANTED you to find them.
(Delete them! Duh-UH!)
And from now on you are busy and so is your husband.
2006-07-16 21:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋