Do they really feel the feelings and emotions the way women do? can they really mean it when they say "you complete me"? or is tom cruise just so cute u want him decapitated?
2006-07-16 13:38:20 · 28 answers · asked by The Lioness 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Some of us mean it.
2006-07-16 13:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 4⤋
Do Men Fall In Love
2016-10-02 11:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by tseng 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men fall in love all the time, everyday, every minute, every hour all over the globe. I used to wonder if men really fall in love and even afer being married for several years I wondered. I have two sons now and raising them has taught me so much about men. I can tell you they are truly feeling creatures behind all that bravado and swagger and they absolutely fall in love.
2006-07-16 17:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by angelicsanto 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Remember, all men are different. I know it's tempting to put them all in the "insensitive pig" jar, and give up on them, but, like an earlier commenter said, they're not robots. They're human beings just like us females, and every human expresses themselves in different ways. Some have more trouble expressing their emotions verbally. This is especially the case with many men, who are influenced by stereotypes and think they will be labeled as "sissies" and "whipped" if they are affectionate and express a desire for commitment.
Then of course, there are those who are, at this point in their life, only interested in dating around, and having fun. And this applies to both men and women. There are men AND women who fear commitment. Both men AND women can be only interested in sex. It's just become more socially acceptable for a man to be a "player", and act in this fashion.
The good new is, most people, including men, grow out of this, and some never go through it at all. Believe it or not, there *are* men out there who are hopeless romantics that have been searching for The One, all their lives, just as there are woman who feel the same way.
If you're looking for a guy who is better at communicating his feelings verbally, I would suggest going for the "intellectual" type. I find that smart guys tend to be more in touch with their feelings, and, at the very least, are more likely to fall for you for your mind/personality than for your looks.
So, to conclude, yes, in my opinion, men do fall in love. Each one shows it in their own way.
I'll leave you with this Jane Austen quote to comtemplate:
"Dare not say that man forgets sooner than woman, that his love has an earlier death. I have loved none but you."
-Persuasion Ch. 23
2006-07-16 14:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by donna_irene_mohr 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
OK, here's the truth. No one else may ever tell you this, so, remember it and pay attention. My perspective is, that deep down when most fellas were younger, hitting the early teen years, started having a slight fairy tale dream of love and relationships and what we'd like it to be like. Well, we get into a relationship, get our hearts broken. This happens several times and we lose touch with the "fairt tale" dream and start thinking that, sure, maybe women are only good for one thing. Not our fault, we didn't break our own hearts. So after a period of time, the thought of settling down comes to mind, then we just realize, we might need to find someone that will put up with all our crap and that we can stand enough to put up with them. Sure, we feel it to be love and all, but it's probably never as deep as it is desired, because by then, we've killed the childhood dream we once held. I know this is not always the case, but, it's probably more likely on average than not. Sure, we can love deeply, it all depends on the person we're with as to how deep our love for them will run. Some can open the heart of a man and touch him deeper than others.
2006-07-16 13:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
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Do they really feel the feelings and emotions the way women do? can they really mean it when they say "you complete me"? or is tom cruise just so cute u want him decapitated?
2015-08-15 07:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. some of us guys feel the same emotions as you women-folk. Sometimes more so. Heck, we even express them sometimes! I'm not generalizing but a lot of women say they want that kind of love but many don't(at least from my experience). With me it's always a deep and powerful and beautiful thing......although I'd never say "you complete me." Have to draw the line on that corny line, tom cruise.
2006-07-16 14:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by .. 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah men have NO emotions or feelings. We are all ROBOTS. I wish you women would stop acting like that. If you say well no man has acted like that to you that isn't all MEN. Also maybe if you women would stop expecting so much of us you would get it. You are always being so subtle with your little hints but you don't grasp that men are just more subtle about our love. We mostly use actions as oppose to sit around talking about it. If I say to a girl I love you what does that do? What did it accomplish? Now if I SHOW her it then she gets that same thing and MORE. That is why men, who tend to be more logical then emotional, worry about DOING THINGS as oppose to just saying it.
2006-07-16 13:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 1⤋
I subscribe to Agatha Christie's view. Men fall in love deeply, and when they do they look exactly like sheep. If they don't look like a sheep they're not really in love (this is before marriage).
2006-07-16 17:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
Wow, good question... you may just want Tom Cruise dicapitated, I know I do. But anyway, I don't really trust that they love the way women do. Maybe I'm jaded, it just seems like they can say they love you at the drop of a freakin hat. I don't think they can even comprehend the way a woman loves, much less love the same way. Best wishes
2006-07-16 13:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by colorist 6 · 13⤊ 0⤋
I think alot of men fall in love,but there are alot looking for compaionship.Also after divorce they are looking for companionship more then love,just my opinion
2006-07-16 17:00:48 · answer #11 · answered by snky 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋