I just started dating my first boyfriend but the problem is I have never kissed before and I dont know how to.What do I do?
2006-07-16 13:00:17 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Da Pr0bl3m♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
First of all, don't do anything you're not ready to do. If you don't want to kiss yet then don't. You're first kiss is one you'll always remember because it was your first. Granted you may not remember the dudes name in 15yrs but that's ok. I don't remember either LOL!
But seriously, don't do anything you don't want to do. Make sure you're ready.
But if you do feel like you're ready it's not something you can practice for because every body kisses differently. Some people are soft kissers and others are vampire wannabe's. Just go with what you feel at that moment. If you're feeling grossed out then either that guy was'nt kissing you right or you just were'nt ready. You don't have to tell you bf that you've never kissed anyone before because it's non of his business and he might start pressuring you to do it. If you feel like telling him afterwards then that's fine.
Little sister you're about to venture into a world that I call "Aaaaaggggggghhhhhhh!!!!!". Boys sure do start to complicate things for us. Just be careful, stay on your toes and take everything a guy says with a grain of salt.
Remember, only if you're ready and only if you want to. Best of luck.
2006-07-16 13:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by ilah23 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't tell him. It might put too much pressure on both of you and you might find its an anticlimax. Just go with the flow and maybe tell him afterwards. You never know it could be his first too!
What an exciting place to be at with your first kiss around the corner!
Just relax and enjoy the anticipation, trust me the opportunities to feel those feelings come few and far between as you get older!
2006-07-16 13:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by tjrj23 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about telling him because it'll only make hum more nervous then he already will be, but if he asks you then tell him but don't make it seem like that big of a deal because then he'll get weirded out because I've seen it happen...just go with the flow and when ya'll talk about it later tell him it was your first kiss!!
2006-07-16 14:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by LoMo2008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14, and I haven't either. I think the best thing to do is tell him that this will be your first experience- he shouldn't get mad, because a first kiss always makes it more special, in my "humble" opinion. Good luck with your date!
2006-07-16 13:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by pianoman.jeremy 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me too. .I had my first hookup when i was 15, most guys thought it was cute and i got the 'innocent' image. Trust me on this one. .through a guys eyes, its alot better to have never kissed anyone rather than be the local slut who's hooked up with everyone. I would tell him and i bet he'll be suprised but if he really likes you he should accept it [=
2006-07-18 03:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Hey little ones, just fill them in, and tell them you would like it to be very special the first time. Just ask them to go slow and be gentle........ and that's as far as you are going the first time around....... if they want more from you...... say no! If they persist, leave!!
2006-07-16 13:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by doctor_johnnie_jointroller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats cool dont worry about it wait for the right time i havent been kissed either and im glad cause im waitin for the right guy in the right time and right place just chill dont waste it! im 15
2006-07-16 16:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him after he kisses you, and then tell him how you felt about your first one ever, which he just gave you.
2006-07-16 13:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the right time and person and when the heart is ready to kiss u know everything about it.
2006-07-16 19:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just let it happen naturally and afterwards you can tell him that you had just had an amazing first kiss
2006-07-16 13:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by marishka 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋