i had a dream that my fiance will left me for another woman (his ex). im pregnant of 7months, is it just a dream or something is about to happen to us not necesarily that he will leave me but something will happen, is it?
2006-07-16 12:45:15 · 16 answers · asked by anika^^ 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
when you are pregnant your dreams are affected by all the worries of having a baby as well as the change in hormones that takes place during pregnancy...
don't worry about it and let it go
2006-07-30 11:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are occasions when premonitions can lead to reality whether coincidentally or else naturally I am not sure but I know this happens as happened to me many times, but not on all occasions though. However you mentioned that you are pregnant and obviously your body and mind going through a lots of hormonal changes. YOu are vulnerable and perhaps in your own imagination undesireable etc. and start working your mind up about your finance leaving you etc. for another woman. I guess you are being a bit paranoid which is natural during pregnancy and start imagining things and eventually you start believing in it. I say relax an do lots of exercise and hope you have a good pregnancy without this added pressure you are creating for yourself. Nothing will happen and you will be a happy family ever after. good luck and all the best.
2006-07-26 09:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by one_faithful_mo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams frequently reflect whatever is going on in your subconscious mind.As regards your specific question, it appears that there is some truth that you frequently think consciously regarding the possibility of your fiance leaving you.Obviously you are not completely trusting him for whatever reason it may be.This state will continue to puzzle you . Why not ask him for marriage right away? That will be the most immediate solution and once this insecurity is gone, you won't get the dream.It is not the dream which may determine whether something might happen to to you both; but your insecurity and the subconscious thoughts which are there in your mind which might be detrimental also. Better to be sure and get married.This will be better for the child also.Talk to your fiance.The sooner, the better.
2006-07-29 23:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I can't rule out the possibility that some dreams might foretell the future, it most likely is a reflection of things you are anxious about.
Do you trust him? Is he willing to make any commitment to you? Do you nag him? Is your relationship pleasant or unpleasant? Would you or could you marry him?
I'm old fashioned. I think babies ought to be born into two parent homes where the parents are married to each other. That's what's best for the kids.
You should carefully examine your anxieties and your options. Maybe your fiance isn't the right man for you, and maybe the baby should be given up for adoption.
You should discuss this with him, of course, but also listen to your friends, your parents and your heart, not necessarily in that order.
2006-07-29 15:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.
Dreams are only like a screen saver on your computer, something that your mind does while you are not using it. (By the way that includes daydreaming.) Have you been thinking about him leaving you before the dream. That is probably what happened. I watched this show about snakes on the Discovery Channel once and dreamed that I got swallowed by a snake and met a talking rat tha helped me escape and I don't think that will really happen.
But if it does (the fiance thing not the snake and the rat thing) it is only a coincidence.
2006-07-16 13:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by dkong242003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a sign of what's happened in your past. I think you have some fear (for whatever reason, valid or not) of being left to take care of your baby by yourself. That's a reasonable thing one might worry about. The only thing I'd do is ask myself if there is any real reason to believe that would happen. If not, then forget it. If so, then do what you need to do for yourself and your child, just as you should always do, dreams or not.
2006-07-16 12:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jane S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams are mere subconcious messages that pertain to you and only you. The message is exclusively yours.
If this is more of a fear dream - (fear of losig someone) - then all it is - is that - in the back of your mind, you should start working on making this probable deaprture not happen.
Also, dreams are like, little pills that soften the blows of an impeding doom.
It all dwepends on how, where and why you are in your life. And how all the materials in your dream pertains to you. You will have to dewcipher that yourslef.
2006-07-30 08:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by elymendoza1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, in specific situations. do no longer many times pay plenty interest to the targets, in spite of the indisputable fact that, what somewhat catches my interest is extraordinary thoughts or premonitions whilst i'm wide awake! One time I wakened with a crick in my neck, tried to paintings it out yet somewhat messed it up. It felt like a lights bolt up & down my backbone, somewhat injury. found out later a fellow i could met had broke his neck and died leaping off a waterfall i could jumped off a pair weeks in the previous, curiously on a similar instantaneous my neck went out. via the way, the evening in the previous 9/11 we've been dealing with previous photos; a number of them have been human beings on right of the commerce towers over ten years in the previous, hadn't checked out them in all that factor and under 9 or ten hours later the towers have been coming down......
2016-12-10 08:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom told me once that everyone you see in your dreams, everyone that part takes in your dreams is you. so when you dream of someone leaving you i guess it just tells you that your leaving yourself. Not exactly like that but close to that..
I advice you open up that topic to your fiance and hear what he has to say. If he really loves you, he will asure you that nothing is wrong and your confussion would be cleared. if he does otherwise then atleast you will know it earlier and will know what to do.
I hope yuor relationship would blossom and not fade away...
best wishes!
2006-07-30 04:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes they are, some people say premonitions come in all color and have a logic structure (like a story) so maybe if ou had that kind of dream maybe it will come true, but the best answer is to ask your fiance.... ohh and do to him things his ex never did ;)
2006-07-17 05:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by RENE H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can. My dad had some premonitions in dreams that came true. Like reuniting with his family after Katrina.
But in your case, I think that's more of a fear that you dreamt about. That happens. I don't think it'll come true though.
2006-07-28 21:26:07 · answer #11 · answered by soldierpoet6840 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋