for the ppl who have a boy friend
2006-07-16 12:39:59 · 10 answers · asked by sexy_koby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should break up with him because the more you stay with him the more he will cheat on you and he will hurt you
2006-07-16 12:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by john cena lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of what you should do, it's what you will do. And I'd bet that you will forgive him, not forget, and try again. Why? Because to cheat and get even with him will cause more trouble and hurt, perhaps std's. To ignore him will probably send him a signal to do it again. You will probably try to get him to understand how much he hurt you by cheating, but men generally don't get it. Most likely you will continue to put up with him, to not trust him again, for a very long time. Then on day, you will begin to see that things can be better, that you can be better. Maybe you'll work on yourself and become strong enough, through a good job, or some self-improvement and leave him. But maybe you'll not every be that strong, and either you will continue and be unhappy forever, or you'll find someone else that will take you from one situation into another slightly different but still problematic.
2006-07-16 12:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Patty B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about it. It must be heartbreaking. As bitter as the truth is if you accept his apology and forgive him this once Im afraid he will do it again. The thing is that if he gets away with it once he would think he could always get away with it.
If it was me I would dump him. If he truly love you he would not do it to you in the first place, no mater how good his excuse was.
Its your decision, but have a long and hard think about it. You truly deserved to be loved as you love your self, honestly, honorably, faithfully and exclusively. If he cant love you this way then he doesnt deserve you.
Good luck with your decision.
2006-07-16 12:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes one persons love is not enough. He has proven he cannot be trusted. If you want to go through this pain again, keep dating him. You are a great person and you deserve better than him!! Move on. you;ll find someone new, In the meantime have fun being you.
2006-07-16 12:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by chris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know you aint the one to be plaiing little mind games with him.
also tell him that you are not dumb and that you got more important things to be worrying about. while you are telling him this, make sure you are wearing something that looks really good on you. that will make him want to stay.
but one thing is, are you sure this is the guy you want? although you love him very much, you should ask yourself howmuch does he love you if he has the NERVE to mess around with some other B****.
Do what you gotta do and i wish you so much luck
2006-07-16 12:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by Darmcc15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. once they've cheated, they'll cheat again no matter what all was said to get back together. It will happened again sooner or later.
2006-07-16 14:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your feeling arent as imporatant to him, but if you can forgive, then i would make him sweat for about a week, dont talk to him, or return his calls, you must make him truely sorry or it will happen again.
2006-07-16 12:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him beg for you back, act as though you have tons of other options and maybe even explore one of those options, then he will be wanting what he can't have
2006-07-16 12:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Dustin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where they even dare to do it once and you forgive him , he"ll do it again and knows can get away with doing it.love yourself first.he doesn't care for you.
2006-07-16 12:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE HIM THE SILENT TREATMENT HE WONT LIKE YOU NOT SPEAKING TO HIM IT'LL MAKE HIM UPSET
2006-07-16 12:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by ♠Whoa!♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋