I had this friend Rolly. We used to hang out a lot cause he was my ex boyfriends friend. Also, his brother went out with my best friend.
After we all split up they kept their distance. Rolly started dating this chick Mellissa while he was seeing our friend Lauren. So yeah he cheated. They broke up shortly after, but I just found out that Melissa is cheating on Rolly with this guy Brandon. They have been going out for a while now. I think they started seeing each other a little after her and Rolly started going out. Since we dont talk, we only see the guys at the skatepark sometimes but my ex and my friends ex are all mean and Rolly never bothers to say hi anymore. We have all this proof, but were debating if we should show him or just let him get cheated on. We figure if we show him, it would partly be because we cant stand his gf and her friends. What do you think?
2006-07-16 12:36:49 · 13 answers · asked by Analina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
flip a quarter or Think real Hard WHAT do you want to do?
2006-07-16 12:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Augie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like Drama 101. I would stay clear of it. The less you have to do with it, the less you'll be accused when something comes out. Sometimes it is best that we observe, see and not say. Be like the little monkeys - see no evil, hear no evil, and say no evil. Keep your 'house" (inside of you) peaceful, joyful and happy. Let them have their affairs - it's nothing to do with you.
2006-07-16 12:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should totally tell ur ex friend that hes getting cheated on the quicker u tell him the less hurt ur ex friend will b u shouldnt care that yall arent friends anymore u should know that the rite thing 2 do is 2 tell ur friend no matter wut the circumstances r im sure ur ex friend would have done the same exact thing 4 u!mayb yall could even b friends again!
2006-07-16 12:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not tell them unless you have actual proof that you can show them. Otherwise they will just believe their partner and you are the evil person that is jealous of their great relationship. So nope don't do it.
2006-07-16 12:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by cherrypie p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that you have feelings for rolly...i don't think if i were speaking to someone or even if i was, but they were being rude to me that i would want to tell him anything...if he cheated, he doesn't really deserve to know anything
2006-07-16 12:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave it alone. You don't want to get in the middle of that. Everything will work itself out in the end.
2006-07-16 12:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by eel84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright this one i would have to say he has a lesson he needs to learn and i hate being mean cuz im not like that but let him find out on his own then hill know what its like
2006-07-16 12:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Green_Kreeper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him would be the right thing to do. But if you don't have any real evidence and you told him, he probably wouldn't believe you and then he would be all mad at you.
2006-07-16 12:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by bassiclyleafy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y'all need to learn to stay out of each others business! This is another example of the " THis is not yours to tell" theory. Stay out of it. He will find her out on his own, trust me.
2006-07-16 12:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by Waferette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but if he don't believe you its on your ex-friend and he must be the dumb one not to know be 4 you and he go with the trick
2006-07-16 12:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by teetabug13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋