Most of the guys I dated only like me for free sex
2006-07-16 12:14:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
they let their hormones get the best of them
2006-07-16 12:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Kid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason you think they date you only for sex might be because you -being the girl-are wanting attention,talking&sharing secrets,wanting to go out&do things like you would with one of your girlfriends.The guy usually isn't really connected emotionally in a relationship untill the relationship has lasted more than a couple of months.
Try going out with guys for a while without having sex,to make sure he is really into you & not just sex.
And if you are with somone now and are feeling this way-try telling him how you are feeling and take a lil break from sex untill you feel you are ready.
2006-07-16 12:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a barber I see a string of young guys in my shop every day and they discuss everything. Many of these guys compete with each other on how far they have gotten or what intimate styles positions or kinky things they have tried. They also want to be known for being with very pretty girls as well. It seems the prettier the girl the more their friends cousins brothers even are passing her around if they can and discussing how far they have gotten. In general though when I have commented that " you guys are terrible!" They tell me "no were not those girls are whores anyway it douesn't matter". So in conclusion. If you don't want to have sex with them, dont . If you are pressured drop them like a rock . When you give in to the guys who only date you for sex theres something else going on behind it.
2006-07-16 12:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by thebarber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will be guys! Im not really sure WHY they do this except they are totally immature-selfish- and only care about themselves and not the girl! Guys will ALWAYS try to get sex out of a date- its up to us girls to say NOPE! I met my husband in 10th grade in highschool and we r still married today! BUT each time we went out he would bug me for sex! Gimme Gimme! I made him wait 3 long long years before I did it with him! and he was my first! All guys will try it but it doesnt mean u have too. That does not mean they will like you past that date! They r just trying to get some and thern they move on. Its total crap if u ask me but thats just what thery do
2006-07-16 12:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in that stage of their lives that's all MOST guys are into. You don't want a guy like that. He don't love you, he loves sex. So don't get with the guys like that! But not all guys are like that. Hope u find a good one!
2006-07-16 12:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by game_freak517 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like asking why mostwomen like chocolate. Men are visual and women are emotional. What you are looking for is not in a teenage boy. The attention is nice but is it worth the battle not to mention the risk of pregnancy or even worse death by aids. Please reconsider this avenue you are taking. Everything you seek from this realtionship and more is there for you jsut waiting for you to turn to it.
Good Luck and God Bless
2006-07-16 12:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by wecaninc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like sex, Guys can only get sex from girls, unless they're gay, most men are not... Does this answer your question?
2006-07-16 12:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not put out so easy and you won't have the worry . They have raging hormones and the more they get, they r macho and the more a girl puts out she is a slut, go figure . where the hell r they getting from. Macho man from the slut. I love my husband! But most men suck. U r not bad for putting out
2006-07-16 14:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by gurlfriin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find a man that likes u for ur personality first then come other things. u go with boys that doesnt know the meaning of love.
2006-07-16 12:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by sasa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you expect if you drop your panties in front of every guy?
Why don't you just go around naked with a sign on you saying, FREE SEX for you?
2006-07-16 13:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they go for it because maybe they know you will have sex with them, try to not have sex, just to date and know each other.....
2006-07-16 12:21:18 · answer #11 · answered by RENE H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋