Why does it appeal to men more than women? What does it make guys feel, (BESIDES THE OBVIOUS)
2006-07-16 12:10:59 · 38 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Eve, it is not that anyone loves porn, at least not in the classical definition of the word love. The real problem is that porn is as addictive as any drug.
The word 'love' is lost to us because of the treachery of alcoholism, drug addiction and addiction to pornography.
It is so much better to love each other, platonically or romantically, than to substitute porn for love.
Unfortunately, it is easier to view porn than to develop a relationship with another person. That way there is no chance of losing, being rejected or having your heart broken.
The problem is that porn addiction, like any other addiction, leads to major loses in our lives. We lose the respect for women, for our own self and lose the opportunity to build meaningful relationships.
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2006-07-16 12:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by H 7 · 3⤊ 5⤋
This is actually quite simple. It goes back to the garden. Follow with me for a second ok. Man had everything they wanted in the earth and dominion over everything except they could not take of the fruit of the knowledge of good and evil. So what did they do? take the fruit. It is in mans carnal nature to desire that which is forbidden not necessarily because it excites them over and over but because it is forbidden and they want to taste the forbidden fruit. If you had access to ever room in a house but someone gave you a key and said don't open that one locked door, what would you want to do? From my own experience I know this, porn is destructive because it gives you this false illusion of how all woman should look and be and this is simply not true, its a lustful eros love which is not true love which is unconditional but just desires to take and satisfy itself. There is so much more but I hope this helps a little. God bless
2006-07-16 12:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by steptoejosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They've actually done studies and some of it is documented on the web. The differences in men and women sexually is real interesting and they find that men are more visual and moment to moment and women flow through longer cycles and are more emotionally driven and controlled physiologically. The differences go on and on...but after all that's what makes us want each other... is the difference. sex is nature...men get tired after, women get hyper...it's all chemical...we will never FULLY understand the other side. - and we're not meant or made to.
2006-07-16 12:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by baron_von_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn sex is lame, as it only looks good on screen – I am guessing you are bored as your friend may be inexperienced and gives porno-tongue..
Besides – women are physically more attractive then men. So making armature porn with ones girlfriend for fun never gets boring
2006-07-16 12:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys will tell you that there has to be a male in order for it to please them. And most men are literally simple minded idiots (sorry guys but unfortuately its true, don't worry there's bad things about women too). Most men only have to think of the word sex and they are instantly horny. And also their hormones play a BIG part of it all. It causes their sex drive to be greater than what a woman has. And think of it this way. How many men, in general, find sex something you do to express your love and get no physical pleasure out of it at all? No most men in general just do it for the pleasure, so a tube of lube and a movie is nearly as good, less effort and less time consuming, plus there's no one else to please but themselves.
2006-07-16 12:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by eissalc_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men like porn more than women simply because the male brain is far more stimulated by visual images, and women are more stimulated by mental images, we can read a torrid passage and get turned on, men see sexual pictures and get the same thing. Read the book men are from mars women are from venus, it really helps you see whats going on in a mans mind as well as your own.
2006-07-16 12:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men never get tired of porn because there are different girls in the movies and we "think" that those girls are Always available when we need to see them, it is a pleasure to see some hot bodies having pleasure...
2006-07-16 12:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by RENE H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to be more for men. even in the ECW on tv, women have to strip. I thought it was wrestling not a strip tease. porn sells and is ruining some things. it is like a disease. liking nudity is normal but it should not interfere with other subjects. it should have it's own space. porn is sneaking in everything sheeezeeeeeee!!!!
2006-07-16 12:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by Ginnykitty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the sex drive is kind of like eating when you get hungry you might eat some junk food if it's whats around
I really don't think it appeals more than a good woman lover
good woman lovers don't play games and manipulate men with sex
Think about how you treat sex and how you use it to control men - if you do
2006-07-16 12:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by SacBrian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say they do get bored, thats why they need to buy more. They want to explore every fantasy they have, visually. Especially when their partner wont help them with their fantasy. When I have had an adventurous girl I almost forgot about my porn.
2006-07-16 12:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by jim w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really get depressed when watching porn alone. It is fine as a couple but watching someone so what I want to be doing makes me sad!!
2006-07-18 07:22:14 · answer #11 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋