my bf drinks alot and he promised me he would quit but that only lasted a day and i pay the bills ? shouldi do

Question

i pay all bill he wont help and he has a daughter and i am tired of his drinking while i pay everything i have 3 kids to rasie and he spends anywhere from 5 to 20 dollars a day on booze then he thinks i have to spend my money on his beer to he owns a place but he rents it out and i pay rent isnt it only far for him to help other than food stamps because i but food also should i dump him it has been this way for almost 8 months

Answer 1

I am sorry to say this, but from the information you have given us, it is time to Move on! You have children to think about and raise. You and Your children deserve nothing but the best and he doesn't sound anywhere close to that. Take Charge and move on. There are plently of other men out there that are responisble , caring and loving. Ask yourself this, do you want your children growing up around a drunk? Remember kids do what they see. It might be hard at first, but you will get though it all. Good luck to you and if you need to talk, email me I will be hear to listen. :)

Answer 2

Get rid of him as fast as you can. you will probably see a change in your kids when you do I;m for sure they are tired of him too. You can do bad all by yourself. You don't need him kick him out set back and see how far he will get without you. Make your life with your kids a happy one.

Answer 3

yes you should dump him. Not only for yourself but for your kids. Kids learn alot from there parent figure. Do you want them to turn out like that....exactly!

Answer 4

kick him to the curb hes drag in yeah down

Answer 5

hes an alcoholic!
get yourself into Al-Anon...

Answer 6

You have to ask? Get rid of him NOW!