MY DAUGHTER IS 14 YEARS OLD I TRUST HER AND HER BOYFRIEND WHO IS 16. BOTH ARE PROMISED IN MARRAGE TO EACH OTHER , WHEN SHE GETS 16 HES GOING TO ASK HER HAND IN MARRAGE, WHEN SHE TURNS 18 THEY ARE GETTING MARRIED. SHES STILL A VIRGIN AND BOTH HAVE PROMISED NO SEX TILL MARRIED, THEY BOTH WANT TO BE VIRGINS ON THAT DAY HE SPENDS NIGHT HERE WITH CLOTHES ON AND OTHER KIDS IN ROOM PEOPLES IN TOWN DONT SEE WHY I TRUST THEM AM I WRONG?
2006-07-16 11:39:39 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all,why would you allow your daughter to even be thinking about marriage at the young age of 18? It would be nice if you were steering her more to being able to see who she will be when she reaches 18,not to being married. As for you trusting them,only time will tell. Don't you remember what it was like to be that age? If you trust them like you say you do,why do you care what the towns people have to say anyway?
2006-07-16 11:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by mrsreadalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a parent you are legally responsible for them till older. Their mouths and hearts at this time may say one thing but their bodies may say another. It's wonderful that you trust your daughter however, why leave temptation on the front burner at their age. They both have lots of growing up and experimenting to do.
2006-07-16 18:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by HolidayGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are they making it hard on themselves? If they really want to keep their virginity until they are married, they shouldn't be sleeping together now - it is too easy to slip. It can be hard enough when there are clear lines, but waking up next to someone in the middle is just making a unnecessary temptation for them.
2006-07-16 18:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Todd S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not wrong to trust but you are naive. They can't help those hormones. Somethings got to give. I think there will be some dry humping or masturbating at the least.
2006-07-16 18:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by downdrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are NOT wrong...but I would expect a rough next couple of years with them. It sounds like temptation will run high with this generation. Also, are you not aware of the word "engagement"?
2006-07-16 20:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mark1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know your daughter better than anyone so you should be able to judge her in the way she would act.
2006-07-16 18:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ginnykitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋