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I was raped and I think the guy got me pregnant and I am only 13 what do I do?

2006-07-16 11:13:38 · 37 answers · asked by Kate S 2 in Health Women's Health

37 answers

Go to the hospital and get tested for pregnancy, as well as std's. Report the rape if you can bring yourself to do it; many girls dont...it is NOT your fault, its the fault of the sicko that did that to you. I hope that you will tell your parents, too, and I wish you all the best.

2006-07-16 11:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by LuLuBelle 4 · 1 0

If you were raped you need to go to the police. You can go to the Doctor and get checked. If it just Happened and you haven't had sex with anyone else since they can do a rape kit, and it'll check for sperm or whatever. Let your parents know if its uncomfotable then tell a trusting Adult. You can by a test from a drug store. But for a more reliable answer go to a clinic or a doctors office

2006-07-16 12:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by QuentinsBaybe 1 · 0 0

Start with 911. But be clear in your own mind: raped or seduced? It makes little difference for the man - 13 is 13 and that's that. But you will need to live and deal with this for a long time.

2006-07-16 11:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by fan tan 1 · 0 0

Katie,
I know your pain... I've been through it too. I was raped and got pregnant. Call this number 1-800-656-hope it's a free confidential (meaning they can't tell anyone, not even your parents) and it's open 24/7 They will connect you with a councelor in your area that can help you out with everything. You can also look at their website at www.rainn.org Feel free to contact me at staciavye@yahoo.com

ps I'm also a big HIM fan

2006-07-16 11:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Stacia V 2 · 0 0

That is absolutely awful that the loser raped u. I suggest u tell ur parents, it isn't ur fault. Ur parents should understand, and hopefully ur not pregnant. U should also go to a doctor so he can make sure everything is ok. And go to the police, so u can help them catch the raipist, don't be afraid to get help. Just remember, it's his fault, and u have people that will help u.

2006-07-16 12:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth 4 · 0 0

First of all its not your fault. And don't listen to anyone that says it is----they are iggnorant.

Go to the police---report it----or you will regret it----no matter who it is!---you don't want them to do it to anyone else right?

Next tell an adult you can trust, your mom, aunt, friends mom, or just walk to the hospital and tell them. Get a pregancy test and find out for sure----you will sometimes miss a period because of what happend to you. I missed 2 months from stress of the inncodent. Yes I was raped to---but I was 16.

Get some counciling----it has helped me alot ----and I wish I had sooner----DONT keep it to yourself---it hurts alot in the long run

if you need somone to talk to my email is traarat@yahoo.com

take care

2006-07-16 12:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Unless you were raped in the last two hours, I am pretty sure you are lying. I looked at your other questions, and they sure don't reflect a girl who has been raped.

What's with you, hon? Why do you feel the need to be a drama queen and draw attention to yourself like that?

2006-07-16 11:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 0 0

Tell ur mom or parent or something!!!Tell them that u were raped...why havent u been told someone that ur were raped???unless u jus gave it up and got pregnant now ur calling it rape but u need to find out if ur pregnant or not...u also need 2 tell the police if he really raped u!!!

2006-07-16 11:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle D 1 · 0 0

I'm sorry> that's so sad. Not to insult you but did you:
1. Wear s1utty clothes
2. Know someone that stalked you
3. Give away information.
What you should do immediately is tell you're parents, the police, and get a pregnany test at a local hospital pronto!

I think we all feel sorry or should feel sorry for people like you :-(
I'm really sorry you had to experience that at such a young age :'-(

2006-07-16 16:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by id_ram 2 · 0 0

1. Call the police. Ask them for names of doctors who specialize in post rape cases, especially when pregnancy is suspected.

2. Get medical assistance, even if the police don't have any suggestions.

2006-07-16 11:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by Pegasus90 6 · 0 0

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