dont get me wrong i love my best friend to death but it seems that when i'm w/ a group of guys i have the attention and when she gets there its all of a sudden all on her...y is this and what can i do to not be in her shadow??
2006-07-16 10:55:35 · 11 answers · asked by floydygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we are exactly the same....we are equally outgoing and funny...and we get asked all the time if we are related or twins....thats y im confused
2006-07-16 11:16:24 · update #1
when she comes go with the flow keep talking to the guys try to make then laugh just losen up and DONT get snotty around her remember she still is your friend remember dont ask her why she does that she mite try to take aventage(srry spelling) of you if she's a b*tch around you dont hang out wit her and oh yes dont let her own you if you know what i mean
2006-07-16 12:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes it might be that she's preetier but it also is the personality as well. Most Guys like you best when you always have something to say and also when you keep them smiling:) it work guys don't like boring grls the like them to be the center of attention and it's just best to learn how to fit in with them. learn what they like and learn who they are and just make them feel comfortable around you and trust me grl ur bestfriend won't be gettin all the attention then she will be asking the same question ur askin right now!
2006-07-16 11:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by ang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be her personalities. Is their out going spirit and not very quiet. Guys, like women that are not quite. With her happiness in her voice it probably make their day. it give them something to think about and put a smile on their face. My best friend is like that. She is a people person and you can't change them, it is who they are. Get used to it or it will causes problem for you two down the road.
2006-07-16 14:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to go out with a different set of friends. My best friend is like this...we work together, and all of the girls at work chat me up and have fun with me, until he gets there. Once he walks in, it's like i don't exist. The hurtful part is realizing he doesn't care. Chances are, neither does your friend. She'd sell you out in a heartbeat to keep the attention, and don't think she won't...
2006-07-16 10:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by kecoughtan97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act as ur self ...u will not be better with another personality ....maybe she is getting the attention when u know guys just wanna fun,body or something like these ..but when they will come to be more serious ofcourse u will get the attention...just make ur truth personality clear and obvious and don't try to be like her cuz it will get the attention more toward her..
2006-07-16 11:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by batt00ta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend is likely asking the same question about you.
2006-07-16 11:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by I KNOW I KNOW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That jealous pout you go into when she shows up turns guys off, and they don't know how to cheer you up, so they talk to her.
2006-07-16 11:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is she doing? Ask her how she gets the attention......idk
2006-07-16 10:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be more outgoing than you. or she may be a better conversationalist, or any number of things. forget her, think about youself.
2006-07-16 11:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by de bossy one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has bigger boobs than you and is prettier and funnier and with a better ***
2006-07-16 10:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋