how can i tell my friend that i am going out with the guy she likes aswell as me?
2006-07-16 10:30:14 · 15 answers · asked by emilythe_1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how can i tell my mate that i am going out with the guy that we both liked at the start?
i feel like i shouldent go out with him, but i really like him, my mate can get any one, and this is my first proper boyfriend. im afraid that i may hurt my friends feelings. do you think i should dump him?
2006-07-16 10:39:45 · update #1
well if your scared to tell her get him to do it shes not gonna go off her head at him is she, actually maybe that's not a good idea your gonna have to be brave and tell her soon before she finds out from someone else. just tell her that he asked u out and u know that she like him but u really like him to and since he asked u out u didn't want to say no. don't be to harsh its not your fault u deserve to be happy u know its your life what would she have done if she was the one that was with him?
2006-07-16 19:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You're not a very good friend are you?
You know he is cheating on her with you and the poor girl has no idea. How could you do that to your friend.
She has been betrayed by her friend and her boyfriend at the same time.
I feel for her she deserves better than the two of you
2006-07-16 17:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a good idea to go out with some1 you both like. Boys wil come and go but friends are normally there for a long time and would be silly to spoil a friendship jst cos of him.
it would be differerent if she was not that keen on him and said so then u could ask if she minded.
2006-07-17 01:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by glitterbugbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dump him to make her happy. If she can get anyone then she needs to go an anyone. If this is your first b/f and if you are happy then keep it that way. If she's a real friend she'll say okay and not make a huge deal of it.
2006-07-16 17:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kittie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? why? why shld you be going out with the guy you know she like. obviously she met this guy first and you know it. Even if she doesnt like the guy you still have no right to go out with him. Thats so mean of you.
2006-07-16 17:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by Incredible! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend will understand but you need to tell her before someone else does. also remember that she is your friend and treat her as such don't for get her. true friends are hard to find boys well do i need to say more.
2006-07-17 03:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him then no dont dump him, if your friend is a real friend she will be happy for you. Best of luck.
2006-07-16 17:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by atticusblack19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, there is no law who you can and cant go out with, Just tell her if she goes mad let her its your dicision who you go out with, and its not like your doing it to get on her nerves.Thats if you like hi as much as she like him.
2006-07-16 17:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i'm pretty sure that the guy asked you out first, right?
2006-07-16 17:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by gwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy..if you went about it in the right way just tell her, but if you did it in the wrong way..ah well!
2006-07-16 17:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋