ok my friends boyfriend is talkin st8 crazy hes talkin abt killing himself and shes askin me for advise but i dont really know wat to tell her wats should i do
2006-07-16 10:03:19 · 14 answers · asked by lil bit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They need to get PROFESSIONAL help
2006-07-16 10:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go to the hospital and tell them you need help admitting someone who is suicidal. They can send the police to pick him up . It might sound really rude , but at least it will keep him alive for a week and get him the right medicine to help him get straight, and a doctor to talk to. This would be for a worst case senario. Also, you can go to "Catholic Charities" (You don't have to be catholic) call them , ask them to get a therapist to call him on the phone and ask if he will come talk to them. They will do the therapy for very little money($5-$10). Best of Luck.
2006-07-16 10:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by LoveMyLife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow-- that's really scary, but i've been in your same shoes. she needs to calm her boyfriend down and really find out the root of his problem(s) and why he says such things. these things are to NEVER be taken lightly and that's a given, but really encourage your friend to spend as much time as she can with him and to talk to him and find out what's going on.
she should also find out if her man is just saying this to get attention (which is NOT funny and he should stop now) or if he TRULY feels like ridding of himself. if he is honest in what he feels, she needs to encourage him to seek professional help. she shouldn't go behind is back and tell his rents or something because that can make things worse. she needs to talk too him and tell him that he needs to get help-- and if he keeps saying no, then she needs to tell HIM that SHE will tell someone if he doesn't get help, so if she does have to resort too that, he'll be ready for it.
i really hope everything works out for you guys!! good luck sweetie!
2006-07-16 10:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by jetters007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 1-800-SUICIDE
It is the National Suicide Prevention Hotline. Give the number to your friend and tell her to call. They can tell you how to help your friend and they can talk to your friend and her boyfriend.
Always, always take talk of suicide seriously!
Also, I do not know how old these people are, but you may need to intervene by contacting their parents and telling them. If they are reaching out to you, they want help.
2006-07-16 10:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by fotojunkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and tell them that some is threatening to kill them self. They can take him into custody and get him some professional help.
2006-07-16 10:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant get ot professional help you need to keep him company AT ALL TIMES .... DO NOT LET THIS PERSON OUT OF YOUR SIGHT. If it gets really serious you need to contact the police IMMEDIATELY!!!!
2006-07-16 10:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by ujenfo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dido
Profesional help !
Call 1-800-SUICIDE - Like that lady on top of me said !
2006-07-16 10:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by cingular11111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
professional help, send him into a center that deals with depression and suicide prevention, get her to sign to release him into the facility and there will be professionals there who will help him, and evaluate him on a daily basis and counselors who he can talk to....
2006-07-16 10:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to call his parents. i know that seems like a betrayal but it is for his own good. If you can't talk to his parents tell another adult that he trusts. You really don't have any other choice.....
2006-07-16 10:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by purple rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really have to get him some help and get him to open up and tell why he wants to kill himself
2006-07-16 10:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell sumone if u dont then he might kill him self it would be better to tell sunone than to not tell neone at all !!!-sportschick3210 email me back if u want
2006-07-16 10:07:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋