She was attacted with a girl.I was a friend at the begining.Itold her it's not good,it'll not work etc.She understood.We'er so close to each other.We shared everything.She became normal.Her results became good.Suddenly I felt I'm in love with her.I was so frustrated cause I'm a normal girl & I know my boundaries & responsibilities.I'm very rational but I just could not stop loving her.A wrote a long letter to her mentioning whole thing.Then she told me she feels the same thing but didn't tell me cause she afraid she'll loose me.Both of us tried very hard not to love eachother,not to think about each other,even went to a psychologist but we failed.Cause we truly love eachother.We're so happy.After 5yrs of relationship we feel the same love which we felt b4 5yrs.Sometimes when I told her about reality she became crazy.I realise she'll die if i support reality.God'll never except this relation but will god forgive me if i leave her?How'll i live without her?What'll happen to my dad?
2006-07-16 09:49:45 · 9 answers · asked by mrinmoyi 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Jesus got mad about hate, NEVER who you love. I can't imagine a God who would gift me with the ability to love, and not want me to do so. If this is how you feel inside, then this is how GOD made you. Think of the people Jesus hung out with, now try to say, "God'll never accept this." It doesn't mesh. God never turned anyone away. When you feel from inside who you are, you can pretend not to be, but that doesn't change the reality. Covering it up is only denying who God made you, and He already knows, you can't fool Him.
After 5 years, this is a relationship with love and feelings, not some sexual perversion, or it won't have continued as you've said.
I recommend praying to God about how you feel and your fears. He already knows. Jesus already died on the cross for your actual sins. (I don't see this as a sin, but if you do, you are already forgiven for this and all of your other sins.)
Hang in there.
I don't quite know if I understand your asking, "What'll happen to my dad," correctly or not, but here are my thoughts if they may help. When I told my parents I'm not straight, I was very worried. My dad was raised Southern Baptist and my mom was baptized Catholic. The response was, "Eh, we had a hunch." I'd heard them say things prior to that point that were very homophobic, but they were there for me, and they grew even more spiritually by involving this into their relationship with God. True, many parents are not like that, but the only way to really know is to give them a chance. If your dad already knows, and disapproves, just remember, God wants you to honor and obey your parents, but He doesn't want you to compromise who He made you to be in order to suit them.
Best of luck!
2006-07-16 10:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God does accept that relationship
Do not fall to the myth of the divine Bible. Jesus Christ is far more than a book that was not canonized until nearly 400 AD and that, in its remaining manuscripts from the early years has over 200,000 differences, some of which significantly change the nature of the faith (see Dr. Bart Ehrman "Misquoting Jesus: The story behind who hanged the Bible and why" from Harper SanFrancisco Press).
There is nothing wrong with what the two of you feel and there is something very wrong with those who would deny you that. Believe in yourself.
Regards,
Reynolds Jones
http://www.rebuff.org
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2006-07-16 09:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love knows no gender. And a truly loving God loves all his children. As for your dad, I don't know. Can you live in a "don't ask, don't tell" relationship? That's what my partner of 25 years and I do with our fathers (our mothers know). It's so out there in the media/ TV, we really cannot believe our fathers don't realize it after all these years, but it is just not discussed. Do not give up your love for religion. I personally would rather give up my religion for love, and have, being a pagan. Life is too short to deny yourself the happiness before you. Good luck.
2006-07-16 10:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have me completely puzzled. You are in love with someone, they love you, and you are leaving because you think God doesn't like the relationship? You need more help than you can get here. Stop worrying about what God thinks...neither you nor I can tell what God thinks. Be kind, loving, caring to her and leave it at that....stay with her for your lifetime. Where do you get the idea that you are a sinner...that is really stupid.
2006-07-16 11:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 08:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to put your trust in God once u have done that all will fall into place. You will make it with out her for it is not of God and His perfect plan. He will always love you.
2006-07-16 11:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ree Ree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God loves everyone. Do you think your ability to be a sexual individual was a mistake by God? I don't think so. He gave us free will. If not, there would not be anything but heterosexuality, in humans or animals.
2006-07-16 10:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what? god will not be mad at you for having this relationship, if anything he will be happy for you! dont be scared. if u feel this strongly i really think, and i think god will back me up, that you are meant to be together believe it or not.
dont deny your feelings cause u think they r wrong, cause if they r there, its for a reason.
2006-07-16 15:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus died for our sins. as long as we accept him as our savior, keep him in our hearts and realize that we are sinners, we've already been accepted into heaven. love is something unique and wonderful--don't let fear creep up in you. if you love her and she loves you back, it doesn't matter her sexuality--stay true to your happiness. good luck. mary.
2006-07-16 10:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by mary. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋