2006-07-16 09:47:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
umm i would say no.... if has been abusive for15 years and wanted to change dont you think he would of done so by now?
2006-07-16 09:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by Melonie M 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No he can not. He may act like he has but as soon as the woman goes back to him and does something "wrong" according to him he will start back in his old ways. No woman should have to deal with an abusive man, just forget about him and find someone new.
2006-07-16 17:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by girl_nextdoor_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone very important in my life was abusive for over 20 years. Went to counseling, swore he would change, and always reverted back to the abusive behavior. So in my humble opinion, no.
2006-07-16 16:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by alexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - I was with with my ex for 15 years - seemed nice to start and thought he was OK but he went back to his old ways but at the time was so in love with him, made excuses for his behaviour. Finally I had enough when he started abusing the kids. Sorry, hope you find happiness soon.
2006-07-16 16:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Apri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always... certain characteristics are hard wired into you from a young age making it resistant to change later in life... even when we do show signs of changing we tend to revert to past behavior... so long story short.. don't count on it.
2006-07-16 16:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he put his heart and soul into it and took a few yrs of anger management it could happen y has anyone been abusing you? if so email me at beautifulone10356@yahoo.com
ive been there and done that
2006-07-16 16:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by beautifulone10356 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt it ..it take a lot for him to change
2006-07-16 16:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Get out while you can!!!
2006-07-16 17:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Shellee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-16 16:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by nicegirl187smile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋