She doesn't flirt with him when I am around but I have heard through other people that if a bunch of them are hanging out when I am at work or whatever, she flirts like crazy, even if her boyfriend is there too! They say he doesn't acknowledge her and I 100% trust him, but I am not sure about her now.. HELP!
2006-07-16 09:38:27 · 12 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Beat her
2006-07-16 09:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by minime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes down to it....If you trust your husband, then that is what truly matters.
Although, why would you want some home wrecking ***** around? Some girls like the challenge of getting what they can't have. If she isn't seeing a response from your husband she will probably keep on trying more things. It's an obsession!
I am also a married woman. I met this girl a few years back, she was overly nice and seemed to be a trust worthy person. As I got to know her, I saw that she liked to hit on married men. She would talk **** about their spouse behind their back to me. She ended up sleeping with her best friend's husband a couple weeks after they had their first kid. I found out, and told the wife. Then later found out that she had a thing for my husband, and flirted many times. I was pissed.
I just see no reason for being friends with a person like that. It can end up leaving you with bad feelings. Then you can end up taking it out on your husband. Even though he is being faithful. Why let the drama mess with your relationship...? Before you know it, things can go wrong. I wouldn't take the chance. Get the ***** out of your life. Good luck hun...:)
2006-07-16 17:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and tell her that you heard through the grape vine that she flirts with you husband when your not around. Maybe she doesn't realize she's doing it or maybe she has other intentions since she only does it when your not around. Ask her why she does it only when your not around and let her explain it to you. Tell her if it doesn't stop then your friendship will have to. Ask your husband why he hasn't mentioned it to you.
2006-07-16 16:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him, talk to him and tell your feelings to him, if he is a good guy he may just laugh it off with a big head. I am married and have been hit on, but I am not a cheater, so I get a big head and just laugh it off, if it starts getting to where she is calling him all the time and going places to be around him, Then confront the hussie with your husband there
2006-07-16 16:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by sabre6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you TRULY TRUST HIM then you have nothing to worry about because if she comes on to him he would tell you! If you really find out different kick his A** out and kick hers all over the place!!!! Have you access to a camcorder??? Or do u have a camera phone w/ video?? Find one and set it up for when you are @ work and know for sure she will be there then you will have a definate answer...Good Luck these things do happen because it happened to me and now she lives in my house and I had to start all over from the bottom!! As for (simply up there GF let me tell you when it comes to cheating do not EVER expect HONESTY to come out of it!!!
2006-07-16 16:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by kim.york 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to have a talk with your 'friend.' Just be honest with her and tell her that you have been told by numerous people that she has been coming on to your husband. Ask her why she is doing it and request that she stop it as you are happily married and he isn't interested.
2006-07-16 16:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spy on her with your digital camera, also try to get some video and/or audio of them two cheating. Even if they are not actually doing each other, and they are just flirting with it, that technically is cheating because you are married to each other
2006-07-16 16:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens to my husband all the time...i think u should just confront her straight up next time u see her. just say "ummm i am hearing that u have a crush on someone...like my husband..."just let her know u know from disclosed evidence...who cares if u lose the friendship, because there is not one if she is going behind ur back like this....
2006-07-16 16:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by butterflidesi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about it. Ask him if he knows that she flirts and if it bothers him.
Maybe you should talk to her...she is your friend... you know.
Hope things work out and that she stops!! Email me!! :)
2006-07-16 16:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is flirting with your hubby, then she is NOT your friend. Set her straight and cut her loose.
2006-07-16 16:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what does your husband say? does he think she is flirting and coming on to him?
2006-07-16 16:41:20 · answer #11 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋