i have a friend who i knew since i moved into another school.i have a boyfriend before,who i didn't know she liked too.i just found out when i broke up with him.before that,my boyfriend told me to stay away from my friend but i didn't.weeks later,i introduced my bestfriend to her and it became the three of us then things fell apart.the two of them left me out and three days later,the two of them broke out becuase of my friend's attitude and that same person came back to me because i forgave her and we became bestfriends.we moved on into the same classroom and i got another friend who i introduced again and it was dejavu all over again, this time i wasn't the one left out.when we left her out because her behaviour was obviously out of hand and out of reason,she convinced everyone that we were the bad guys and she wasn't so everyone took her side.it's annoying!am i the wrong one?she broke all my relationships with other people and now this?sometimes i regret that i forgave her.help!!!
2006-07-16 09:38:22 · 4 answers · asked by googz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like your the victim of what's called "fair weather friends",
and their only around when things are peaceful, and when your a friend in need, they dissappear on you!! a true friend will be their for you no matter what goes wrong in your life and offer support, and there's also another saying that comes to mind, "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me"! I would put it in the past and leave it their, to constantly relive it will only lead to ruin, I would seek to make other friends and remember your incident as a lesson learned, and this will help you in finding the true friends I spoke of and to be selective about who you call friend. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-07-16 09:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by trekkie1972566 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she may be jealous of you. If I were you I would stay away from her unless she really changes her ways. Even if she appologizes, I would be very cautious and I would never fully trust her again. Good luck in making better friensdhips in the future!!
2006-07-16 16:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by purple rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to rewrite this question. It is too convoluted. I had to stop reading at the fifth line.
Be briefer and clearer next time.
2006-07-16 16:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to ask??
2006-07-16 16:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋