I am married too. She and I are about the same age. She hasn't shown any specific signs of being interested in having an affair, but I'd like to drop the hint somehow to see if she is interested in me in the same way.
2006-07-16 09:35:06 · 11 answers · asked by Dillon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So you are willing to sacrifice your marriage, your job, and your reputation for some ***?!?!?!?!? AND she has not shown you any specific signs that she is just so in "LUST" with you? Wow! You are not very smart are you?
2006-07-16 09:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Instead of fantasizing about this woman at work, try fantasizing about your wife. She's obviously the woman of your dreams because you married her. If you have an affair, your dream will become a nightmare. Everything will become so much more complicated. Your work situation will become very uncomfortable. And even though you think that it will be discreet, someone will eventually pick up on what's going on. So just don't do it! All of the brainpower that you're investing into trying to figure out how to approach this coworker should be invested into figuring out how to make your marriage better for you and your wife.
2006-07-16 10:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What ever happened to love and honor in a marriage? I'm not a bible thumper, but come on. Why did you enter into a marriage with someone that you don't even love?
As for the other woman, she hasn't shown signs of wanting to be with you, so leave her alone. Don't you think that if she liked you that she would give you the "go ahead?"
DON'T DISRUPT SOMEONE ELSE'S MARRIAGE BECAUSE YOU CAN'T GET IT UP FOR YOUR WIFE.
2006-07-16 09:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Approach her with a ten foot pole and KEEP THE POLE BETWEEN YOU--lengthwise. Affairs are discreet for about five minutes on average.
2006-07-16 09:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a million. gossip isn't actuality and in case your components are incorrect then you definately've slandered 2 human beings. 2. HR does not care what human beings do of their very own private time see you later because it does not impression their artwork. the only way you may take such information to HR and not have them throw you out of the place of work is to soak up evidence as to how their private habit is negatively affecting the place of work. HR is interested in long lunches that decrease into corporation time and unlawful or unsuitable use of corporation kit. concerning to the only time HR could become in touch w/ an place of work romance is that in the event that they have a coverage against place of work romances. 3. if there is an affair occurring and issues end grotesque then sure, if somebody have been vengeful then he/she could desire to sue the corporation and their ex lover for sexual harassment. does not recommend something could come of it in spite of the shown fact that it is been generally happening to ensue. 4. as on your extra information: possibly it's time to initiate finding for a sparkling activity? yet sturdy success w/ that---i've got yet to artwork in an place of work or different workspace the place there wasn't somebody engaged in some form of illicit hanky panky--the two on the place of work or remote from it---or different questionable laspe of sturdy judgement. your ultimate wager to evade being dispirited with the aid of human beings's undesirable habit is to ignore concerning to the gossip, as much as you may and concentration on how they do their activity. Your coworkers do no longer could desire to be your pals and you do no longer could desire to chum around w/ them after artwork. you do no longer could desire to hold them to the comparable time-honored you may your friends and human beings you want to affiliate w/. Your objective is to stay as expert as attainable and checklist on your boss or HR whilst your coworkers are slacking to the component which you're having to %. up their workload.
2016-11-02 04:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by shuey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it Pal, It will never work out.
2006-07-16 09:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by JayMartin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN EITHER ASK HER OPINION ABOUT IT IN A QUESTION...OR JUST STRAIGHT OUT ASK HER.
2006-07-16 10:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by "Jsgdgirl_nls" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your wife deserves better than u!
2006-07-16 11:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by pezilove 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a life!!
2006-07-16 09:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by gill 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thou shalt not commit adultery....
2006-07-16 09:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋