2006-07-16 08:26:37 · 18 answers · asked by Squiddly Diddly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel very alone most of the time also even though i have so many people around me that love me and who i love but i just got out of a long relationship, its hard sometimes but remember who u are and that life is going to pass u by if u only focus on what isnt there instead of what is. uve got alot to look forward to when there are people around u who care so much...hang in there!
2006-07-16 08:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by pezilove 2 · 8⤊ 3⤋
Some of us are looking for deeper meaning in relationships than a lot of people are willing to. Finding five friends that feel the same way is worth more than a thousand acquaintances. Hang in there! You just think you're alone.
In the meantime, don't be afraid to pick people's brains. Ask them questions that cause them to examine their feelings. ("Who has had the most significant influence in your life? Why?" "What is your favorite movie of all time? Why?" Always ask why? when a person makes a statement.) If you can get a person to really dig into their own feelings and share them, it will bring you closer. If they are hesitant, explain how you would answer the same question to get them started.
There are actually a lot of people who would like to develop closeness with others, but they are afraid people will think them silly, so they stick with surface communication.
2006-07-16 08:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by bikerpjb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because
a) you haven't found your soulmate, the person who complements you (may be your spouse or relative or child or whatever, just that person makes you complete)
b) a human being cannot really know another human being ( point a) is based entirely on feeling, not knowledge), and at some times we feel that nobody knows us, so we feel all alone. It passes, whenever we reach outwards and are good to other (thus fulfilling the will of God, even) and stop feeling self-pity.
2006-07-16 08:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel lonely in life even with lots of familly and friends around you, when you do not feel fufilled, you are dissapointed,and do not have a strong believe in yourself,or you lack focus and you are working hard towards a goal but with no or little support from whom and when it is expectected.
Don't feel alone take life easy have faith and attend spiritual gatherings like a dynamic worship Church.
God bless you.
2006-07-16 09:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Survival 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the possibilities of why could be numerous things;i'm guess its because you're self-obsorbed & dwelling on a person,place,
thing,situation that may be bringing up unsettled feelings inside of you or you have an empty void inside of you that you can't seem to fill right now & are soul searching & that can cause you to feel alone also. if none of these apply to you then sometimes it just happens that we feel very alone in a crowd of people. i don't know if you suffer from any types of major depression or mental illness but these conditions can play a leading factor in experiencing the types of feelings you're describing that you're feeling.
this to shall pass; give it 24 hours & see what happens.
2006-07-16 08:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by amtrakcafe2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often felt the same, turns out I was depressed. Speak to a doctor or councillor, theres obviously something underlying thats making you feel this way.
Use those friends and family for support, you will feel much better for it when things get better.
good luck hun
2006-07-16 08:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by zoe_ruby_slippers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call it the pore mezzz. try to change the thingsyou can in life and the rest will fallow. life has alot of ups and down so smile and keep youre head up things will get better
2006-07-16 08:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by toolman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there must be missing in your life,,,
you might not be contented on what u have right now,,,
you might be looking for something which is not in you yet,,,
might be love,,,
i can't tell,,,
i've been there before but ans much as i know myself,,
one thing that makes me a little bit in complete is....
love,,,
still dont have the man whom ill be spending the rest of my life with,,
but dont lose hope,,, we can have it,,, at the right time,, at the right person,,,
God is good,, just pray,,, ur wish will be granted,,,
dont rush urself!!!
take care and be happy for you still have your family who loves you and always be there for you!!!
God bless!!!
2006-07-16 08:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by l_e_a_h_02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because in our minds we are truly alone, it's just your self in there no one else. When you get to sucked in to your own thoughts it feels like you are all alone.
Don't dwell on things too much just be yourself and spread the love.
2006-07-16 08:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by bigsingy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it jus happens and its not like u r alone but sometimes u r alone
2006-07-16 08:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♣BABY GIRL♥♥♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋