2006-07-16 08:17:14 · 14 answers · asked by crazy_maniacin_bed 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
How about long conversations and plenty of attention. Is there a reason for your wifes low libido? Find out!
Maybe she is a little depressed/stressed/worried about something.
Ask if there is anything that you can do for her and pay attention to her answers. How long has it been going on, coz maybe there's some demons from her past that she needs to kill in this area- if it's a recent thing, has anything happened that could have caused this change of heart?
Don't pressure her for a while, and take things at her pace, eventually she'll be able to relax and chill out.
Maybe you could do everything for her while she just rests during the day, I mean like cooking, laundry cleaning and other chores, and run her a nice relaxing candlelit bubble bath, and see where it takes you....
Have fun, but if she doesn't want to join in, don't feel rejected or hurt, a woman's mind is a complicated place.
Again, talk to her but not so much that she goes of you completely. Space and time are probabaly what's needed.
I hope that made sense!
2006-07-16 21:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is going to sound a little off the mark but as a woman It will work. First, off quit thinking with your lower brain. Clean the house for her. If you don't want to hire someone else. Do a few loads of laundry and wash some dishes. It will not kill you and don't insist that hs feel like she owes you something for your help. Most women do these chores all the time.Most women feel overwhelmed with all there outer duties and don't have time to concentrate on the other things. Next tell her how special she is and how much you love her. Tell her how much she means to you and how appreciated she is. Don't forget to tell her how beautiful she is. Tell her what you love most about her. Even if it is her cute toes. Then start with a romantic evening, dinner and then a warm bath together followed by a sensual massage and then end up in the sac. The more attention you show her and the more time she has for her self. The more time she will have for you. Also, don't forget the KY. Most women do not like sex because there is not enough moisture there and it causes a raw feeling kind of like a pouring alcohol on a sunburn.
2006-07-16 11:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attention and loving care. I mean, pay attention to what she wants and doesn't want. Surprise her pleasantly.
And forget about pressure, that would spoil the whole thing. When she's gonna, she's gonna, when she isn't... tomorrow is another day.
2006-07-16 08:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a large cup of Dicken Cider
2006-07-16 08:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Cheesie M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her flowers,
write her a poem,
send her for a massage and to get her nails done
take her for a meal
take her breakfast in bed
job done
2006-07-16 09:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by PSP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sedatives, tranquilizers, alcohol. Whatever works.
2006-07-16 08:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by JennaJennaBoBenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but let me know if anything works.. i have a wife too ha ha
2006-07-16 08:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by dazzadrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love and affection and no pressure that is all she will need if that doesn't work maybe she needs to speak to her doctor
2006-07-17 10:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ERRRM Good hard sex.
2006-07-16 13:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A new lover!
2006-07-16 10:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋