me and him are best friends and we did have connection..but he hurted me by going out with my friends and he told me to stay out of his life twice!! and when he asked me out i said "i don't knoe" so he thought that i said no..but i didn't..and now he doesn't want to ask me back out..cuz he said that he's not the type to ask people back out..but than he always does that to his ex-girlfriends..and my friend thinks that he's too desperate..and that im his second choice..wat should i do?
2006-07-16 06:56:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You hurt his ego once. Why should he risk having it hurt again? What you should do is apologize for your behavior and in doing so, tell him you said no once to a date, but now if you were asked, you would say yes.
Good luck!!
2006-07-16 07:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. That is a quote from Dr. Suess. Follow that advice. If you think you are the person for him then follow that. Why does he have to ask you out? Do you want to go out with him then do it. If you don't try on a pair of clothes then you won't know if you look good in them (quote from another person). On top of that you are best friends. That means you know each other. That puts you ahead of most people. Also about your friend saying that your his second choice. You're not the second choice. You're the next part of the meal. Like a dessert. Plus some people are a little iffy about dessert even though it's always the best part of the meal. They can be afriad to eat it cause they think it isn't good for them but eventually they can't stand it so they eat it. I'm not saying that you're a quick dessert or anything, you have feelings and that's what counts. Just make sure that you don't sleep with him for a long while. Wait at least 4 months before you try. Then you know he loves you. If he doesn't then I guess he's not the right clothes. Good luck with love. Sacul
2006-07-16 14:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sacul Dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If some one treats you so cruel and tells you to stay out of their life, that alone should be a message to you. First have respect for you self and expect it from others and do not settle for less.
2006-07-16 14:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by perrisgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP! For ***** sake, how old are you? You must still be a teen/child. Wait for a REAL relationship, not middle school/high school CRAP!
Get over it, move on, and focus on your academics for now. There is a .01% chance that you and some kid you "date" now, will every make it as anything in the future. STOP STRESSING YOURSELF OUT!!!
2006-07-16 14:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by boo_6917 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask him out. I think he would be desperate if after you said no (or he thinks you did), he kept asking. It sounds like you both need better communication skills.
2006-07-16 14:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show some self respect and kick him to the curb. You don't need someone who plays such stupid games with you.
2006-07-16 14:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just playing games with you
2006-07-16 17:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. just forget about him. the right guy will come to u. just be patient.
2006-07-16 14:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by ba bam! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who really cares< he asked you and you said no! Move on. Chicks are dumb man.....
2006-07-16 14:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by Chris F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz he thinks you will say no again.
2006-07-16 14:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by juz b in real wit it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋