why is it that i often seem to stumble upon men who are waaaaaaaay too open with me?
open as in, they're not embarassed to say the "weirdest" of things to me?
are men just NOT embarassed?
Just now, i was chatting to a guy online, only know him though msn and been chatting for 7 months now, he just told me that he needs a poop because he had a bad curry...(obviously not as politely)....eeeww, gave me too much info there! Why!?
2006-07-16 06:55:02 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its not just him, another mate of mine, farted in front of me, another one burped my name...the list goes on....
2006-07-16 07:08:43 · update #1
Oh my.. that is too much info:P
The thing is.. most people u meet online turn out to be such creeps.. I no that cause Im online pretty often and have met loads of them in my lifetime..
My best advice would be to never assume that a guy will be "normal" and always expect the odd remark (in this case, about pooing *throws up*) lol
Anyway.. saying that is a little hypocritical of me as I met my gf through faceparty (www.faceparty.com) over a year ago and we're still goin out..
I don't know.. A guy who says stuff like that clearly doesnt care about what you think of him.. Even if he seems nice, he just has other things on his mind.
Hope i made a point.. take care
2006-07-16 07:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by Oscar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting.
In some ways, being free to talk about 'anything' without embarrassment is a very positive thing - to be able to take your openness a long way, in some ways, some reas are 'out of bounds'.
I wonder what the distinction is. Maybe it's topic - if a topic is 'out of bouds' you just don't go there. If a topic is 'in bounds', you can push it as far as you like.
Or maybe it's just intuition, pure and simple, to feel out boundaries and no go areas. That's how it works in practice, but whether or not it reflects some deeper 'rules'....
Ah, who cares. I'm off to find a cold drink.
2006-07-16 07:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Wax Crayon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could unload him asap. If he likes yet another female and she or he him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? actual love would not play video games or have wandering eyes, that is committed and hard paintings. you're able to desire to work out this as a purple flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you mustn't additionally be pondering a severe relationship that is going to reason you lack of self belief. have exciting, do no longer replace into overly invested in this, WHAT? you are able to no longer flirt? pass on, the writing is on the wall and it spells hassle. Do your self a choose and decrease the guy loose, no count if it somewhat is destined to be, it is going to run that is direction and he would be lower back. yet why you're able to take him lower back in basic terms you are able to answer.
2016-12-10 08:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider 7 months as 'stumbled upon a man'.
2006-07-16 06:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are much more free with what they say when they are online. They know you can't see them & they get braver.
They can say things to you they would never, ever say in polite company because they know they will never, ever have to see you.
2006-07-16 06:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your just an open kinda person and people feel comfortable around you
2006-07-16 10:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and im open with my sexuality, but not with stufff like that. but i really dont know what causes th openness and randomness, and yes we can get embarassed,
2006-07-16 07:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the way people talk is you find things like that offencive tell them its that easy
2006-07-16 06:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by Hitman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once I've answered this I'm just off to release an hostage.
2006-07-16 06:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's as bad as it's got hang onto him for dear life chuck. lol ;)
2006-07-16 07:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by ausjo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋