Would you care if he/she is with someone?Would you get jealous when you see them talk to the opposite sex?Would you get mad if they ignore you?Would you get upset to see them flirt around with everyone? If you didn't like your ex, how would you act? Would it bother you to see them looking BETTER and SEXIER than before? Would it bother you if people found him or her attractive?
2006-07-16 06:00:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would only worry about myself and my happiness...everyone
deserves happiness if they are a decent human being..jealousy
is a waste of time....as for my ex...I am happy to be away from
him and he has no place in my heart anymore...he's done alot
of evil and I have to look to God for comfort on that because he
was cruel and did terrible things....his looks don't appeal to me
even if he looked like Antonio Banderas..I'd know what was inside
If you don't like the ex...why are you so worried about what this
person is doing..as long as he isn't hurting you...my ex can't touch me with a ten foot pole because he's not worth it...I deserve
better
2006-07-16 06:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by ljean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I don't like the person, my answer is "NO" to all of your questions above. What the hell would I care if he or she was with someone else---ditto ignoring me, flirting with others, etc.
I mean, I don't LIKE THIS PERSON and I would PREFER to NOT be around people that I do not LIKE!
But if there was a kid involved, I'd be as pleasant as possible, for the child's sake.
I think you still have the hots for your ex. Go lay down until the feeling passes. Turn on some Discovery channel or something.
2006-07-16 06:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you break up with someone they always improve their looks because they are back on the market. just remember why an ex is an ex. AND them ignoring you was to probably get your attention in a negative way. I would just move on realize the great person you are and feel bad that they screwed up letting you get away.
2006-07-16 06:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try just to ignore them. I would also try to remember what made him an ex of mine in the first place. Did he treat me bad, did we fight alot, did he dump me? I wouldn't want to be with him anyway... Good riddance. Alot of my exes have been attractive... on the outside. Its only a matter of time before this new person finds out whats on the inside.
Dwelling on him would only make it worse for me. There are soooo many other nice guys around. Prince charming is just around the corner!!!!
2006-07-16 06:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by K_Lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After I got over it, I wouldn't look at them too much.
I'd say, good luck for them, if they are lucky, so be it, our lives have taken different paths, let them be as they want to, I wouldn't care. Even if I was a bit upset, I'd try to avoid them not having to see them hand in hand with the new girlfriend, or flirting with other women... comm'on, only masochists do that!!!
2006-07-16 18:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not care at all.
If I would see my X with someone else......I would be a little concerned about their new partners future(especially if they are a dear friend).
If they are looking better and sexier than when they where with me.....then the decision to break up was a good one.
One man's TRASH is always someone else TREASURE.
2006-07-16 06:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by belledejourdenoir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an EX is a HAS BEEN!!! Some girls are jealous and some are not it all depends on how long the relationship was! But If I didn't like my ex there has got to be a good reason not to like him...But I would just shrug it off and kill him with kindness!
2006-07-16 06:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no none of the above would bother me. I would say hi and be about my way if I ran into him. Things didn't work out for a reason and move on and let it go. That's just me though every person is different that's what makes us unique.
2006-07-16 06:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think any of that should bother you if you don't like your ex.
If you spend all that time noticing everything you described, then you better think again. You might be liking your ex more than you'd like to admit, otherwise, nothing would bother you about them. If you don't like someone or something, you pay no mind to it. You tend to completely ignore it or them.
2006-07-16 06:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long we were together. If it was just a little while then no, but if it were a very long relationship, maybe with a few kids thrown in there, marriage. Then yes it would bother to extremes.
2006-07-16 06:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Charity B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋