Okay my situation is sticky, but bare with me. My husband and I had an open marriage. A year ago we met a couple and 10 months ago basically swaped partners. I moved in with the other guy, and his wife moved in with my husband.
Now we are all back with our "correct" partner. My question is I feel like I am still the other mans sexually. Its really hard for me to get into sex with my husband, and its not fulfilling. All I think about is the other man. I can't go back to him that's not an option any longer, only a dream. How do I get my sexual attraction and desire back with my husband?
2006-07-16 05:29:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
have a threesome
2006-07-16 06:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by TEXXBRATT 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You can't. You and your husband allowed each other to disrespect your marriage, and you both have shown a high disregard for the actual meaning of the vows. You also have shown yourself that you are not ready to be married, or comitted to a true and loving relationship. Your behavior is also very destructive to yourself, and one day you may run the risk of disease, or an unwanted pregnancy. Fantasies are a normal thing in life, but acting out on them is not a good behavior when married. You should divorce, and find someone who is not respectful towards themselfs or toward you, and who doesn't mind having a girlfriend with a reputation for having no morality or self respect. There are plenty of boys out there who would gladly fill this position in your life, but one day you will come to realize that you really want a man to marry and not be with boys who are just along for the sexual ride.
2006-07-16 12:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are savouring the fruits of the seeds that you have sown. Theres no turning back. Be on the hunt for amother couple. And again swipe partners. After that do the same again. And keep on doing it till the time ur sexual urges subside. Then go back to ur husband to live a happy married life. All the best
2006-07-16 12:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think is this is sick, but i am not you ........to answer your question. i think you should stop swapping partners till you get this guy out of your head. maybe try new things with your husband..but if you still feel like this over time you should tell your husband. if your marriage is open then you should have no problem talking to him about this.
2006-07-16 13:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by nanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I couldnt live with myself...Well, I really dont think you can get the same flame back with your husband. It seems to me that once the flame goes out, its nearly impossible to relight. I hope you have learned a lesson though.....because of you two choosing to have this "open" marriage, now someone is suffering...
2006-07-16 12:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by kbjcw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry to another guy and then swap partner with your present husband then you will have satisfied sex with your husband.
2006-07-16 12:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Atique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some counseling. You and your husband obviously need it. Moreover, you are getting what you deserve!
It is ALWAYS A BAD IDEA to bring someone else into a commited relationship.
If you have learned a lesson from all of this then perhaps you can stop being a....
LOSER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-16 12:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it sick yall should get your head on striaght cuse thats not what a marrage is supose to be if yall loved each other yall wouldnt have done that and you wouldnt be in the predicament ur in now
2006-07-16 13:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by armyengineer296462003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew.....it's not my place to pass judgement, but I it's not the right way to be married, it sounds like a big mess and....yeah.....wow...
2006-07-16 12:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by royal_crown78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋