I'm not giving my specific situation here, but how come every time somebody sleeps with someone they shouldn't, (IE your best friends guy/girl (depending on the sex of your friend)), or when they cheat in a relationship, they say it was because they were drunk. to be clear I am not talking about being passed out drunk, but seriously is being drunk a valid excuse.
2006-07-16 05:06:24 · 23 answers · asked by simpatico_17_98 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is not a credible excuse. People use that when that do something they wish the hadn`t or if they think somebody will judge them for doing it. The use of "well I was drunk" is as an excuse so that they have something else (alcohol) to blame there problems or embarrassments on.
2006-07-16 05:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
no man there is no excuse if u are in a relationship. i should know what ur doing and know that aint the right person u r kissing. i hear that 2 but its only cuz my friends slept with some not to hot chick. so the excuse was im drunk and thats koo cuz its all play. if ur in relationship and someone slept with someone and blamed it cuz they were drunk. theres is no valid excuse except if someone was raped. so if that didnt happen then he or she a cheat and u need to tell them goodby. they might say it was a mistake but when they drink again they will make another mistake. if he or she cared they would have not have done anything. so yeah no excuse for sleeping with anyone dont belive that stuff. good luck
2006-07-16 05:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't. They just feel that people will give them a free ride or feel pity for them so they use this excuse. It really boils down to the fact that they are not responsible people, and don't want to be held accountable for their actions. It is a case of being immature at any age. People see that in society today, that if they can blame their behavior on something or someone else, that it is generally dismissed, and then they are relieved that they are ignored on their behavior. It is simple immaturity and a loss of inhibitions as others might claim is false.
2006-07-16 05:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all being drunk does is easier to do your desire. For example, there was a guy who was single, I was interested. So I decided to become drunk so I have an excuse for talking to him and hopefully get laid. Unfortunately for the first time and the last time in my life, I actually got dump by a guy I liked. Its sucks.
2006-07-16 05:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, being drunk is not an excuse. People say that all the time because they feel that being drunk inhibits their decision-making ability. But really, if it's wrong, you can say no even when you're drunk.
2006-07-16 05:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the point is,whoever uses that excuse must remember
they were sober before they got themselves drunk.
Therefore they are putting the blame on a drink other than themselves.
So the answer is NO!!!
2006-07-16 05:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by R. W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never a valid excuse. being under the influence can still be right minded. i think this is a lame excuse to sleep with someone they shouldent.you are able to make your own decisions even when under the influence so no, they are ust bitches and the wanted to have sex beforehand
2006-07-16 05:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by MARIA G. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is a big NO!. You don't have to be passed out drunk. you should keep control of yourself, and those pesky little hormones. If you can't, Tell the one your with that you don't feel so good , and think you you need to go home.
2006-07-16 05:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by brent1478@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I was at a guy friend's house last night (and I have a bf) and we were drunk as hell but I didn't do anything even though he wanted to...it's not that hard.
2006-07-16 05:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by Everything 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because alocohol is a drug.one that makes people lose their inhabitions.the more you drink the more uninhibited you become.making you do things you wouldn't normally do.it is sort of rape cause it is something you wouldn't have done if you were sober.and if you are using it as an excuse then you need to get help, psycologically speaking ,hope this helps.
2006-07-16 05:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋