Why?
There are several issues here, age(maturity), financial stability, and emotional involvement.
2006-07-16 04:57:20 · 8 answers · asked by stacey 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It just depends on the guy...I personally like older guys...I'm 36 and I usually tend to be attracted to 45-50 BUT with that being said, I don't want them to be married to their job and not have any time for me....I want someone carefree but stable and intelligent...for the most part, I think younger guys are only looking to have fun and aren't willing to settle down.....but the younger man your talking about seems to genuinely love you and just because he's first really "starting off" I don't think that that is a cause to dismiss him.....from what I gathered, I would go for the younger one!!!!
Good Luck to you, I hope you make the right choice!!!
2006-07-16 05:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think it would depend on the guy, some guys are mature when they're younger and some are older and act younger. It just all depends on the situation I believe.
Anyway I prefer older guys, I've always did and probably always will. The boyfriend I have now is older 44yrs old and I'm 26yrs old. He isn't married to his job either. He's stable, emotionally and financially.
2006-07-16 05:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the age is a factor. personally, I think its more bonding to create your dreams together, work to realize them together, and enjoy them afterward together. while stability is nice, what have you shared to get there? where is the bond between you?
married to a job is a definite turn off to me. loving his job, being stable in his job - that's different.
what woman wouldn't want a man that is mad about her?
I guess it really comes down to choosing the person over the circumstances.
2006-07-16 05:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by Crooks Gap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married for nearly 25 years now, if i were to re-marry (which i said i would never do), i'd go for the man married to his job but has financial stability. that way i'd still have the time to myself that i enjoy so much, but don't get enough of.
purely selfish reasons on my part.
2006-07-16 05:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by loving 40+ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a younger man and starting life but mad about u catergory would be best. coz the older one wud be always out at work, he wudnt hav any time for u... but the younger one wud always care for u with all his heart...so u choose..which matters the most.. love or money.
2006-07-16 05:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by shayma_138 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older, Younger Guys dont want to want to be tied down, the older guy has sowed his wild oats, Im sure you can get himn to break away from his job more.
2006-07-16 05:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the stability
2006-07-16 09:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i picked an older man and im glad i did, young guys dont want to settle down, and there inexperienced with love makeing, they just want to jump on and jump off, as long as they get what they want there happy, in which an older man takes his time and makes sure you get satisfied to.
2006-07-17 00:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by freebuns76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋