why is it that when you like someone they are taken? but yet, it feels like they like you, but you know they dont, but you still have this little bit in you thinkin "what if he really does like me"? well i have that feeling...how can i get over him??
2006-07-16 04:47:28 · 14 answers · asked by aloha from hawaii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how can i get over a guy.. and i dont want the same, concentrate on school work.. la di la di la! i dont want that.. other ideas that are actually reasonable and WORKS
2006-07-16 04:50:00 · update #1
i am 25 years old, thank u very much
2006-07-16 04:50:57 · update #2
because life sucks like that sometimes....
2006-07-16 04:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound like a know it all, but I believe you already have the answer you seek. Life doesn't suck, it's the people, and situations we find ourselves in that suck. So too unfairness is not life, it is a human quality. Life is just life. Because we think, we create for ourselves all situations good or bad. The answer is always time, and a good look at our reasoning for being in the situation we are in. In most cases we have more control of it than we think we do. But in some, they are out of our control, yet we worry about them just the same. Only worry about those things you can control, and don't allow others to heap things on you as though that is you task in life. Live your life, by your own set of goals, dreams and ideal. If a person likes you or you like them and don't get the same in return, that is not always permanent, nor is it life or death. Please respect yourself and others the way you want to be respected, and don't ever let someone else's action, or inaction govern the way you live.
2006-07-16 12:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Tom H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are attracted to that which is unavailable. The more distant he is...the better he looks. He is just a guy...and one that is taken...So how to get over him?
Force yourself to notice other guys. Read romantic books about other guys....look for sexy things in magazines and picture them on other guys....make yourself sexy and appealing by getting out there and wearing clothes that make you happy. Forget about the cake in the refrigerator and go to a bakery and find something new.
It is all about perspective. You are in your prime. Don't let time waste away. Put that pretty smile of yours out and be available. Experiment. Ask others out...then wait for others to ask. Practice dating a couple of people casually. That will help you get better at being single. Volume volume volume leads to success. Holding on to one candy bar that isn't even yours leads to starvation. And no one likes desperate. So get out there....and force yourself to have fun till you do.
It will work babe.
2006-07-16 12:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lonliness and need for exception are high right now.You want to be loved just as this person is loving someone else.Dont be fooled ,you are going to be someones special love one day.In the meantime,get involved in some hobbies you enjoy to take your mind off this person who is already taken.In the long run you will be happy knowing that whoever you choose or whoever chooses you will do so out of love; not want or need.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-07-16 11:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't unfair...you make it unfair by not taking chances. If you see a guy that you like, be the first to make your move and if he's taken, move on. The right guy will be there for you soon enough.
2006-07-16 11:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by gwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you, like 10? Just wait several years, then you'll have some things figured out. As for now, just focus on your school work. Who you like in 5th grade won't be important in ten years.
2006-07-16 11:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to put ur mind on something or someone else... they're taken ok u can deal with that b/c the one for u is out there waiting to catch ur eye.. but if u keep pondering on the taken guy the "one" for u may just walk on by never noticed...if it was ment to be he would be urs not hers... i believe in destiny, we all have that special someone..ur soulmate out there, we just gotta keep our eyes and hearts open and look. stay busy go out with ur friends, put urself into ur work and trust me when u least expect it BAM! and honestly if he truly liked u ..he still wouldnt be with her....he wouldnt b taken he'd b urs...
2006-07-16 11:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have set your goals for love a little to high, loosen up and enjoy life, one day some time some where love will bite you on the but! love roccks!
2006-07-16 11:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years down the road you will look back and say to yourself...where was my head!
2006-07-16 11:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, really am sorry hope life treats you better than that dear!
2006-07-16 11:55:34 · answer #10 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋