2006-07-16 04:36:24 · 10 answers · asked by aparna 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Learn to like it, because he will never learn to not like it.
2006-07-16 04:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by tspbrady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you just need sometime to adjust to your new role and being married. It is hard to do fellatio if you'r enot used to it. Just ask your hubby to give you sometime to adjust to it. If he does it to you then you really have to do it in return. Eventually both of you will experiment and find things to add spice to your life. You're still in the adjustment stage. If your hubby really loves you, he'll give you time to adjust and not to force you to do things at this time. One thing that is prohibiting a person to do fellatio is the thinking that it is dirty, if this is the case, well you can both take shower together and start it from there. At least in the shower you have all the opportunity not to swallow your saliva while doing it and you will not be thinking of the mess.
2006-07-16 04:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by marky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise, do you enjoy him going down on you. If so then figure out a way to get him down on you and you down on him. Also try some other moves in the bedroom, get on top, tie him up, blindfold him or ask him to blindfold you etc. Spice it up and maybe he want mind not getting head from you
2006-07-16 05:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise. Come to an agreement on how often. He's not going to ever stop wanting it, get used to doing it. It's a guy thing that will never change.
2006-07-16 05:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, bottom line is your married and you better learn to like it enough to please your husband. I know this sounds wrong but the fact is, he appears to enjoy it and is not going to go the rest of his life without it. You will end up divorced. I don't want to sound cruel but that's the facts. It should not be a big issue if hes clean. Its something you should want to do to please someone you love. Good luck.
2006-07-16 05:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Ask him for time to get use to the idea. You shouldn't have to do anything you don't want to do but if you give it a chance you might learn to like it.
2006-07-16 05:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your's is a very typical Indian mind-set...absolutely nothing wrong with it... Ask hubby to go down on you too...
2006-07-16 04:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by Wrobinhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you dont want to do! If he forces himself on you this is rape, even though you are married. There is still time for an annulment if he forces you to do sexual things that you are uncomfortable with.
2006-07-16 04:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by loveshy34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what to tell you... my lover wants me to do it too, i told him how i feel about it and he didn't force me. i know sooner or later i will have to do it because he goes down on me too, but until then i have to keep an open mind...or something like that! but you mustn't let him force you to do anything you don't want to!take care now!
2006-07-16 06:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by olga z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't displease your husband.
2006-07-16 04:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋